Jun 14, 2021 in Life Coaching

Will You Let it Go?

Are you still haunted by your past? Do you let your past sabotage your life?

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

28 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

28 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

28 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

28 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

28 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

28 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Are you still haunted by your past?

Do you let your past sabotage your life?

If you answer yes to the first question but are not sure about the second question, more than likely you are allowing your past to sabotage your current life and your future.

But the sad thing that often happens here, is that you could be holding on to that painful memory because you don't want to let it go.

Yes, no matter how painful it is, you still don't want to fully release it.

It becomes the yardstick that you measure everything else in your life. You focus on everything in detail looking for the similarities to what happened in the past and when you see anything small appear, you fall into the pattern of shutting down and backing out of moving forward. You move back into that past that keeps calling you and that you keep crawling back to.

You are addicted to your past and you push away any opportunity to let it go completely. This has to stop right now. If you want any chance of happiness now and for your future, you have to stop comparing everything and everyone according to your past.

Your past is the block that you need to break into little pieces. Enough with being a slave to it and enough complaining that nothing else is good enough when something small comes up as a reminder.

If you are ready to make the change and let go of the past and stop sabotaging your future, now is that time. Don't wait until you feel ready, because you know what? You will never be ready. You have got into the habit of holding that past pain close to you as your own little baby cradled in your arms that you won't let go of.

Waiting will not serve you...taking action will.

It's the time right now to begin again and work on letting go of that pain and begin smiling again.

You deserve happiness, you deserve joy and you deserve a future filled with fulfillment and success.

So quit sabotaging yourself with the painful memories of the past...it's time to let go.

Are you ready for that fresh start???

Contact me right now and let's chat about how I can help you do just that.

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