May 8, 2021 in Therapy
Five Ways To Improve Communication For Couples
Ways To Improve communication for couples to strengthen love, marriage and relationships.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
- Active Listening
When communicating with your partner, practice active listening. Be completely present. Never engage in a conversation just for the sake of hearing and respond with your fixed ideas.
Some chose to know or be aware of the information. Comprehend the whole message that your partner is conveying. Comprehend means understanding in detail and also measuring your partner's thoughts and feelings about the conversation.
- Stop Giving Negative Feedbacks
In a conversation, when your partner shares with you a problem, stop criticising or giving negative feedbacks everytime. Take the efforts to understand, structure your words positively and explain to them why you agree or disagree. At times, you just have to listen.
Feel....feel....when you are talking to your partner. Always put yourself in their shoes. Be sensitive to their thoughts and feelings.
- Reflect and Improve Your Communication
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If you did not communicate well, improve speaking better and effectively the next time. Reflect on your areas of improvement and work on it. Discard dysfunctional interaction patterns.
Start practicing these for a happier relationship.