I am a mother with two kids, living in Hungary with my husband. I run a private praxis as a Marriage Counselor helping couples to get over their crisises. Crisis means one of them wants to change the relationship. This change does not essentially have to end up in divorce. There are alternatives.
I use Gottman Therapy in my work and David H Olson prepare/enrich couple analysis. Before a couple counselling session I speak with the partners individually, and we make an assessment with the enrich marital analysis tool.