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Three Un?x???t?d W??? Y?u M?? B? Keeping Love Away! Gail De Souza, Love Coach

"L?f? ?? wh?t h????n? to you wh?l? ??u'r? bu?? m?k?ng ?th?r ?l?n?." John Lennon

Gail De Souza

Life Coach

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Three Un?x???t?d W??? Y?u M?? B? Keeping Love Away!

Three Un?x???t?d Ways You M?? Be K????ng L?v? Aw??!

"Y?ur t??k ?? not t? ???k f?r l?v?, but m?r?l? t? ???k ?nd find all the b?rr??r? w?th?n ??ur??lf th?t ??u h?v? built ?g??n?t ?t." ~ Jalal ?d-D?n Rumi

Have ??u ?v?r ??n??d?r?d ??u m?ght be ?l???ng a r?l? ?n ?l?w?ng d?wn th? process ?f meeting ??ur Mr. Right? Pl???? see ?f any of these thr?? un?x???t?d "l?v? bl??k?r?" ?r? ?n ?ff??t in your ?wn l?f?:

1) You ?r? g?tt?ng ?n ??ur own w??. In m? conversations w?th single women, I ??k th?m th? f?ll?w?ng question: "Wh?t do you th?nk might be slowing you down, holding ??u b??k, ?r stopping ??u fr?m h?v?ng th? relationship ?f ??ur dr??m??"

It ?? f????n?t?ng how ?ft?n the answer ?? "I ?m" ?r some v?r???n ?f th??. Th?r? were t?m?? during m? ??ngl? life wh?n I ?ub??n????u?l? ??b?t?g?d m? ?h?n??? f?r love w?th my self-limiting th?ught? ?r sub-optimal ??t??n?.

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Gail De Souza

Life Coach

233 $ / session

  • 10 Thank yous!
  • 7 Testimonials
  • 9 Publications: 90 likes 139 shares

Th?? ??n show u? in many ways: f??r, doubt, ???th? ?r ?mb?v?l?n??. Ar? you ??ttl?ng f?r l??? th?n you deserve, ?r ?l???ng a v??t?m? It ?? worth ??k?ng yourself the question: Ar? you g?tt?ng in your ?wn way?

2) Y?u ?r? n?t full? ?wn?ng your ?wn ??w?r. It ?? ?? ???? t? f??l hurt, disappointed ?nd disillusioned wh?n ??ur l?f? h?? n?t gone ?? expected ?r r?l?t??n?h??? have n?t w?rk?d out th? w?? ??u hoped.

One of m? f?v?r?t? quotes is b? John Lennon ?f B??tl?? fame who said: "L?f? ?? wh?t h????n? to you wh?l? ??u'r? bu?? m?k?ng ?th?r ?l?n?."

It is ???? t? forget th?t ??u ?r? ult?m?t?l? r????n??bl? for ??ur w?ll-b??ng ?nd h????n???. There h?v? b??n t?m?? ?n m? l?f? wh?n I w?nt?d to h?v? ??m??n? else ??m? rescue ?r save m?, but I have ??m? t? r??l?z? th?t I am responsible for m???lf ?nd my h????n???.

It is ?m??w?r?ng wh?n you d? r??l?z? ??u h?v? th? r????n??b?l?t? f?r ??ur own j?? and h????n???. Once you trul? l?v? ?nd value yourself, ??u ?r? more able t? ??kn?wl?dg?, ???r????t? ?nd receive the l?v? and lessons ?th?r? h?v? t? ?ff?r.

3) Y?u are not b??ng t?t?ll? ?uth?nt??. It is ?nt?r??t?ng h?w often w? ?? hum?n beings try t? impress ?th?r? by tr??ng t? b? wh? w? th?nk th?? want us to be. One of th? m??t ?ntr?gu?ng th?ng? about hum?n relationships is how ?ft?n ?ur vulnerabilities, ??????n? ?nd fr??lt??? h?l? other ????l? relate to u? ?nd t? l?v? u? more fully.

If ??u ?r? trul? living your l?f? joyfully, and ?uth?nt???ll?, ??u w?ll be v?r? attractive t? th??? around ??u. B? letting go ?f th? fear ?f th? "real ??u" being "d????v?r?d" you w?ll b? mu?h m?r? ?ttr??t?v?, ???n ?nd r????t?v? t? r????v?ng love.

After all, you really want ??m??n? t? l?v? ??u f?r b??ng ??u! Ju?t f??u? on b??ng the v?r? b??t v?r???n ?f yourself ?nd ??u w?ll b???m? ?rr????t?bl? ?ttr??t?v? t? the r?ght ??r??n.

 

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