Jun 24, 2019 in Business Coaching
Money & Love - Your Relationship Determines Your Wealth!
Being unfaithful doesn’t only mean they have had an affair, it is also committing financial unfaithfulness.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Money & Love - Your Relationship Determines Your Wealth
Having observed many relationships it is quite clear that those in happy relationships continue to expand their minds & progress to extending their abilities for the greater good.
If we were to look at money every single one of us, has gone through a period of stress about money. Partly, to the fact that when we were children it was not a mainstream curriculum subject taught in school or our parents kept their financial talk to their peers or professionals. Unfortunately, this cycle still continues based on lack of understanding of money & love.
In our current economic climate we are seeing couples start their lives together thinking the best way to avoid money arguments is to keep separate banking accounts. His pay goes in one account, hers goes into another, and they each pay bills separately. In part this is wrong as it sets the foundations for financial problems as time goes by.
Add to myWE:
Did you know that money is probably the number one issue that couples argue?
Money fights are the leading cause of divorce and behind this is infidelity.
Being unfaithful doesn’t only mean they they have had an affair, it is also committing financial unfaithfulness. In acting deceitful by failing to declare that they have a secret bank account or a secret credit card that you shop til you drop and hide the evidence by saying you bought it last year.
You may have your spouse that is bringing in most of the money or the only source of income, who may feel entitled to most of the say or have outbursts because they hold a higher income over the other’s head. They sometimes forget what the other has brought to the table. An example of this would be carrying their child for 9 months, having your body go through a temporary transformation resulting in your stomach or vagina cut open.
A wife more often expects to be financially supported by her husband. This is a primary benefit assumed when getting married, especially when children are in the equation and are making pesky demands for the latest I-phone.
It is more likely as the years go on, one day you or your partner wake up feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied with the spouse. You may find you have unmet financial expectations as things aren’t going a certain way and resent the relationship.
Marriage ultimately is about team work with the out look of its not “yours” or “mine” needs to be stomped out from the getgo and see it as “ours”. It’s time to stop making money mistakes and see yourselves as a partnership that work together for individual and couple goals. You can learn how to discuss your finances in a more productive way even if this means enlisting the help of a Coach or money expert.
We all know that wealth is important and plays a vital role in the quality of living. Those who have it are generally happier, have better health, greater longevity, and enhanced status.
For those who are single there is a “lid for ever pot” a old Southern adage. Start now to develop an abundant and prosperous attitude in all areas of your life for you will attract more of that into your life. The Universe has a funny way in delivering a prosperous and abundant soulmate into your life, as if by magic.
When couples feel good about their finances, they feel good about themselves and it becomes a healthy way to step into a marriage. Combined efforts in a relationship means to see the full pot as “our money”. A word from the wise is to ensue that when seeking love you must ensure that lid fits the pot.