Jun 26, 2020 in Life Coaching

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Devastating instances of abandonment are all too common across the world. Parents abandon their children, partners abandon their spouses, and others abandon those who love them. To understand just how widespread this problem is, it’s estimated by the United Nations that parents or families have abandoned 60 million children who now must live in orphanages or other care facilities.

No matter the circumstances, abandonment can be tragic for those who are left behind. Divorce, breakups, and other instances of abandonment are no laughing matter, either.

Life after abandonment.

Unfortunately, all it takes is one instance of hurtful abandonment to result in potentially life-altering emotions. Those who have been abandoned by their parents, spouses, or other loved ones are very likely to carry that fear of abandonment with them for a long time.

Abandonment issues may include:

A lack of trust in others;
Withdrawal;
A tendency to self-sabotage new relationships;
Unhealthy obsessions with pleasing others;
Anxiety about disappointing loved ones;
Codependent behaviors.

We want to take a moment to compassionately emphasize that all of these are perfectly normal responses to tragic cases of abandonment trauma. If you’ve experienced child abandonment or if you’ve been abandoned by someone else important to you, know that you are not alone and that there is no need for you to feel guilt.

Even better, be uplifted by the fact that you don’t have to live with this abandonment trauma forever, and it is possible to heal!

In pursuit of healing.

Above all else, there is one way that we recommend pursuing recovery from abandonment fear—establishing a relationship with a Life Coach.

Many people with traumatic abandonment experiences have found benefit in speaking with a Life Coach about their abandonment and how it has affected them later in life. Now, with the internet capable of connecting these individuals with professionals across the world, time and location are no barriers to receiving help and finding healing.

If you are currently fighting the fear of relationships or personal issues caused by past abandonment, an Online Life Coach can work individually with you to overcome the hurt, move forward, and thrive.

Online life coaching is a valuable opportunity to work one-on-one with a professional who will know how to help no matter the particulars of your circumstances. Don’t put off your healing any longer!