Nov 25, 2020 in Life Coaching

Self Sabotage

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Do you feel like any one of the below mentioned situations???


You carry guilt, so should be punished...

You carry blame, so should carry all burdens...

You are ashamed, so should hide...

You are unloved, so should be perfect...

You are broken, so should appear as a whole...

You are imperfect, so should imitate..


Do you feel like any of these...
If Yes... It's time to stop doing that.. because, all of the above are only making you day dream ...

Now, just stop wondering and saying "I'll do this or I'll do that". If you really want to achieve something, start implementing your plans. If you don't feel it's the right time, wait for it or else make it right time for you....

If you don't, you only fall into one of the above feeling! So, you got to be brave and stay strong rather than falling into the process of self - wreck.

"Self sabotage is like a mental tug - of - war. It is the conscious mind versus sub conscious mind where subconscious mind eventually wins." Bo Bennett

Don't let subconscious win, by keeping your conscious one "Alive"! It will only damage you...
Take your self made guilt into "innocence".
Take off the blame by "forgiving".
You know yourself better, turn your so called shame into your own "glory".
If you feel unloved, "love" others and be "kind".
So what, if you are broken for once, fill that space through "gratitude". It's the biggest tool.
Everyone is imperfect. Embrace your imperfections. Stay calm and be patient. Time will do the rest for you..

Start it from right now, and get out of that cage that's holding you from growing.

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