Love is vital in manifesting dreams, but what if we can't access it?
As a therapist and coach for women who feel disconnected from themselves,who often suffer from severe anxiety and depression. I frequently find myself experiences revelations about life.
I recently came into a great awareness that the trauma that some people experience through no fault of their own and often in childhood, has a huge impact on their ability to be abundant.
As they slowly close their hearts to pain, they close to love. Then comes the struggle to love, because it carries with it such a great belief that love indeed, is a great source of pain.
When we find ourselves unable to love, we find the more negative aspects of ones feelings rise to the surface. Jealousy and anger, blame and bitterness, become more predominant as the authentice loving self drowns.
If you have ever studied or practiced 'The Law of Attraction' you may know that in order to attract what our heart's most desire, we need to ask, receive and believe that it is on it's way. But the essential part of using the LOA and manifesting is loving what we desire, and here is where it gets tricky for someone who has closed their heart. They don't love. They don't have love for themselves, for others or for things in life.And so find it extremely hard to live in abundance and attract it.