Oct 19, 2020 in Life Coaching

Be patient with yourself.

This article is about prioritizing yourself and not allowing others to mistreat you.

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

23 Mar

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

16 Mar

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

13 Mar

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

13 Mar

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

23 Mar

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

16 Mar

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

16 Mar

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

15 Mar

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

15 Mar

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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There are people that are far too patient and put up with situations for far too long.You doesn’t need to be patient to disrespect. You don't need to be patient to unkindness. You don't need to be patient to rudeness.You don't need to be patient to disloyalty.You have to realize that you can't value someone who doesn't value you.

You need to start being patient with yourself. You need to be patient with your healing. Start putting all the energy and love into yourself and realize that you are worthy of respect, love and loyalty. You only accept the love you feel that you desererve, that is why it is crucial and important to start loving yourself. Heal from your past traumas; be gentle and kind with yourself. A lot of people always put others needs and wants before their own and when you do this people will continously be asking you to pour from your cup without having to fill yours and this will leave you empty. That’s why you it is important to fill your own cup with self love, self woth and this happens when you engage in self-care. .

Always keep in mind that a healthy relationship is about both parties nourshing and caring for each other. If a relationship leaves you feeling broken and empty, it is not the right relationship for you. It is crucial that you stop looking to others for happiness because you will be searching for a lifetime. True happiness is an inside job and no one can do that for you, it is too much of a burden to place that kind of responsibility on someone else. It is your job to go on a journey within yourself and make yourself happy. Once your foundation of selflove is strong you will find the love you are worthy of because you will not accept anything or anyone unworthy of you.