Jul 31, 2022 in Life Coaching
LIGHT WILL GROW ON EARTH BECAUSE OF YOU
"Thoughts" comes first. "Experience" is always secondary. It is never the other way around.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Thoughts" comes first. "Experience" is always secondary. It is never the other way around. Your experience is always a direct refection of what you are thinking.
"State of Mind" is the name of the Game.
Clarity and recognition of your own power are the bottom line.
Your thoughts form your world all of the time. Make it your intention to stay very clear, centered and grounded. Make it your intention to live in the moment, not in the past and not in the future. Say to yourself, I want to accelerate my personal evolution, I want the Universe, God Spirit to assist me in greater capacity. I want my body to regenerate itself, I want to emanate health. I am willing to give up difficulty so that I can be a living example of what the Divine Feminine / Divine Masculine can be. It is this line of thinking, commanding your being from within, calling out what you want with clarity that brings you everything in acceleration. You are self motivated and self empowered.
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Do not be afraid of what you create, trust who you become knowing that you are a powerful creator of the family of light. Do not sweep your hurt, anger, disappointments, betrayals and failed relationships under a rug, as if they are all dirty horrible experiences that are now dead to you. You need to get finished with these dramas, clear what needs to be cleared, apologize and forgive. Walk away from anyone who carries on with the drama and does not offer you forgiveness in return. If you don't, you will get lost in them once again, only to be repeated for many years to come.
Understand the drama you have had with your mother, father, brother, sister, lover, siblings, co-workers and so on, is something you may use 20 years later to come to a whole new realization. Finish them up, resolve them as best as you can, create peace, accept your part in them, and then you let them cycle back through your consciousness to teach you something.
You are in charge of your thoughts and responses. Your emotions gives you instant guidance…if you feel a negative emotion (e.g. anger, frustration) you know it’s time to stop and check what you were thinking…then it’s easier to look for a thought that feels better, and move yourself into a more loving and giving place before you respond to anything. Emotions control your thinking, behaviour and also your actions. Worse still, if you keep holding on to negative emotions, letting them constantly wear you down, you are setting yourself up for physical illness.
Those who consider themselves "as victims" are usually so out of touch with their feelings that they are unable to connect to their consciousness. They live in a victim mentality and you need to stay away from them. Victims find victims and victors find victors. Your words, feelings and thoughts are either empowering or disempowering.
Have the courage to lit your light.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.
Eliminate the words " should or trying" from you vocabulary.
Should implies that you are operating under someone else's sovereignty. You are sovereign onto yourself. If someone is trying to change their lives they can try for the rest of their lives. Trying is not doing. Whenever you use the word trying you will not accomplish anything. Trying is an excuse.
Use the words, I am creating, I am doing, I am manifesting, I am bringing about, I am intending. Eliminate the words... I am trying.
State of "Mind" is the "Name of the Game".
I cannot emphasize this enough. How you feel about reality, how you respond to reality is going to present itself to you for the rest of your life.
Remember when you learn the rules of the game that you are a result of your thoughts and that this is a Law within our Universe. All you need to do is to think of who you would like to be and so you shall be. Once you figure this out, your entire life will change. You are in control, no one else is.
I want you to test this out.
For the next 5 days, stay away from drama, keep your thoughts feelings and how you react or respond to people or situations under control. You will notice immediate improvement. This will inspire you to practice what you have learned daily, going forward.
You will be tested by the Universe through friends, family, co-workers or even people you have never spoken to before. When you pass the test and show the Universe that you now clearly understand that the state of your "mind" is the "name of the game" your dreams and goals will manifest in record time.
Stay in the moment, stay motivated and stay true to the light that is within you.
Love and light...