Jun 2, 2021 in Coaching
Can the Law of Attraction Save My Relationship?
Finding and being in love can be a truly wonderful, life-changing thing. But what happens when love lets us down...
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Finding and being in love can be a truly wonderful, life-changing thing. But what happens when love lets us down or even lets us go? We know that whatever we want most and give our attention to the most, we can attract into our lives, including love. But the question on many people’s lips is, “can the law of attraction save my relationship? Can it revive a love that is seemingly no longer there?”
It is no surprise that so many people often ask this question. After all, relationships are being made and broken every minute of every day. Unfortunately, the answer to this question should be made immediately clear; the Law Of Attraction cannot make a specific person love you. But it can help you attract your real soulmate.
3 Ways To Manifest (And Heal) A Relationship
1. Look For The Cause, Not The Cure
The results of the Law Of Attraction can seem ‘magic’ at times, however, it is important to remember that the Law Of Attraction is in no way any form of ‘magic’ or ‘voodoo’. It cannot offer you the magical love potion that you crave. Instead, it allows you to take responsibility for your own reality and use your thoughts, actions, and energies to create the very world that you live in and attract all that you want and need.
You can work in alignment with the Law Of Attraction to attract certain emotions, experiences or things but you cannot use it to do the same for another person. Just as you are in charge of the life that you live, so are the people around you.
Basically, you cannot force another person to feel or behave how you want them to feel or behave. That is up to them.
What you can do, however, is choose to look at your diminishing relationship in one of two ways…
You can look at the decline of your relationship as a sign from the universe that this relationship is not what you truly want, and as a result, choose to let it go.
Or, you can look at the current difficulties in your relationships as signs that you are non-deliberately attracting emotions, situations and experiences that you do not want, and therefore identify how this has happened, before changing it.
More often than not, when certain aspects of our lives seem to be going nowhere (or rather, anywhere good) then this can be a sure sign from the universe that you would be happier elsewhere.
You may argue ‘but I love this person, I want to be with them, so why would the universe think otherwise?’. This is a valid point, but the fact is the Law Of Attraction is listening to what you want most and does want you to find happiness.
Is this relationship what I really want?
Am I happy?
Our lives are only a reflection of our most inner thoughts and feelings. So if this is the case, is the break-up of your relationship for a reason? Maybe it is a response to how you are really feeling, deep inside?
2. The Path Less Travelled
When we are traveling down the path that is right for us, everything seems to flow smoothly. We have a sense of purpose; we are at our happiest.
However, it is when we are traveling away from our life’s true calling that the road becomes bumpy and we are met with numerous obstacles and resistance. This is the universe’s way of telling you that you are going the wrong way. It hears what you really want, to find true love with someone that will bring you lifelong happiness, and it sees that you are not on the correct path to getting this. So learn to recognize when the signs are telling you that something is right, or more importantly, wrong.
If your relationship is crumbling around you, if every day is a struggle, or if your partner leaves you constantly angry, tearful or worried, then this relationship is not right for you at this moment in your life. It may be that they are recovering from a previous relationship and needs to heal first before they are able to love you. Ghosting, not returning your calls, ignoring your WhatsApp messages, are all clear signs that they are not truly invested in you as a life partner. Remember, if you don't respect yourself first, how can they respect you? If this is the case, my best advice to you is to walk away.
Having said this, some people may choose to see the problems in their relationship as an indicator that they are non-deliberately attracting what they do not want into their lives, including their relationships. This could be as a result of lack of self-awareness, negative surroundings, a lack of gratitude and positivity. Basically, anything that may have lowered their frequency and hindered their manifesting abilities.
If you feel that this is the case for you and your relationship, then through the power of affirmations, lots of self love, a change in thought patterns and activities, you can raise your frequency to one of positivity once again. This new found positivity may have been just the thing you needed all along and may have a profound effect on both you and your partner. However, if whilst at your manifesting best the relationship doesn’t seem to be working, then you may have to accept that you are in fact getting the response from the universe that is best for you.
3. Letting Go
We are taught to believe that in order to be happy; we must find somebody to complete us. This couldn’t be any further from the truth. It is negative and limiting beliefs such as these that lower your frequency and stand in the way of you manifesting the things that you want most, including love.
The end of a relationship can be a sad time, but don’t let this hold you back from the happiness that you deserve. Concentrate on you, your emotions and energies. Raise your frequency with positive thoughts, words, and actions. Do this and your love’s course should be set straight; this may mean that your current relationship can get back on track, or it may mean that your relationship must come to an end. Whatever the outcome, when you are living in alignment with your goals you can rest assured that the universe is directing you onto the best path for you.
It is completely possible to manifest your ‘dream’ relationship. But remember, this may or may not be with the person that you are with now.
Sending you much love and light on your journey...