Dec 6, 2020 in Life Coaching

Choose Relationships That Make You Happy

Choose relationships that make you happy through language, sincerity, conversations, and interests.

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

27 Mar

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

27 Mar

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

27 Mar

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

27 Mar

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

27 Mar

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

27 Mar

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

27 Mar

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

15 Mar

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

15 Mar

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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There are a few things I look for in relationships and happiness is the first.

Happiness is different for many people. However, there are basic goals that we should want when having relationships with other people; language, sincerity, conversations, and interest.

The goal when maintaining or establishing friendships with those whose words and actions contribute to a positive life. Have relationships that speak positive language and are supportive. When we can have those types of people in our lives, we maintain a positive outlook. That bond comes from a good place and is long-lasting.

Having sincere people in your corner can allow us to feel safe and protected. Their consideration allows and can give a warm feeling of love. It is good to reciprocate by caring about them as well.

Relationships are more fulfilling when you are able to have meaningful conversations. I like knowing the other person has an open mind and heart. Look for relationships with people who allow you to have an opinion.

Acceptance of another person's point of view is a true display of openness.

I am happy when I find people who value my perspective as much as their own.

Taking part in like interests with friends adds to overall happiness. Today, my relationships with others are based on how happy they make me feel. When it comes to having the same interest, try to commit to overlooking superficial traits in others and focusing on the heart. The inner attributes of a person determines their ability to have and share true happiness.

The best way to know if you choose relationships that make you happy is self-reflection. Here are three questions you can ask yourself about your relationships in terms of speaking the same language, sincerity, conversations, and interest.

1. Which of my relationships are questionable in terms of how well they are serving me?

2. How do I contribute to repairing a relationship that is damaged by hurtful words or actions?

3. What are some of the strengths I look for when building new relationships?

The ultimate goal is happiness, try and choose relationships that make you happy.