Oct 31, 2020 in Life Coaching
Be Yourself in Relationships
Are you trying to be someone that you are not? Are you saying things to be noticed? Be yourself, present who you are.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
“To thine own self be true.” Shakespeare
Are you trying to be someone that you are not? What I mean by this, are you wearing clothes that you normally would not wear to impress someone? Are you doing things that you do not want to do but you do it because you want someone to notice you? Are you saying things on dating websites to be noticed by potential partners? To have a successful relationship, it starts with presenting the true you in the relationship.
After working with many clients, oftentimes, I hear how they want to fit in or catch the attention of someone. They find themselves doing and saying things that are not an accurate representation of who they are. In the end, they do not feel good about the relationship any longer because they established a relationship under false pretense. If this resonates with you, you are at risk of relationship failure. One essential tip that could be beneficial how to present your true self in a relationship and be with the partner you want, do not be someone you are not.
Add to myWE:
Do not be someone that you think people want to see or be around. When you are able to be yourself, relationships feel natural. For example, if you enjoy wearing a T-shirt with your hair up in a ponytail, then do just that. If you love wearing sneakers then wear sneakers, be comfortable. If you love staying in and watching movies, then say that. If you do not like doing something be honest with that person.
If you find yourself altering who you are to make someone else happy, ask yourself one question, what would you like to start happening in your relationship(s)? If you can answer that question, you are being yourself. You have a clearer vision as to who you are and what you want. These are good indications the true you is present, not someone you are not.
It starts with you. Be proud of who you are because there is only one of you.