Aug 10, 2020 in Life Coaching

3 Tips For Extroverts During COVERT 19

This article gives you tips to deal with the pandemic. I think extroverts find it more challenging to deal with the lockdown

Ava Garcia

28 Nov

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

28 Nov

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

Answer 67 answers • 6 Experts joined

Huttslady

28 Nov

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

1 Dec

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

Answer 46 answers • 6 Experts joined

Ashleigh

30 Nov

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

28 Nov

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

28 Nov

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

Answer 80 answers • 6 Experts joined

John Hayward

28 Nov

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

Answer 71 answers • 4 Experts joined

Martha Diaz

2 Dec

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

Answer 44 answers • 5 Experts joined

Christie

2 Dec

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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3 TIPS FOR EXTROVERTS DURING COVERT 19

Introduction:

As an extrovert, I find it extremely difficult to cope with not being social with others. I miss the positive shared energies and even more so the motivation I generate from being together with others. So what do we as extroverts do to cope with COVID 19?

First tip: Try and find new ways that will energize you. Maybe you would like to spend time in nature. Take a stroll on your own on the beach and sing songs while doing it. Or perhaps you would want to cry and scream about the “unfairness” of this whole pandemic. It is healthy to get the suppressed feelings and emotions out of your body, and it will harm no-one.

Second tip: Become creative. Start a blog, or learn how to paint or to build a puzzle. To be creative is an excellent method to do processing without thinking. And as extroverts, we do not like too much introspection. The above techniques are an easy way to process unaware emotions.

Lastly, we can skype or zoom, or WhatsApp calls to your friends. Before you do it, you need to prepare yourself and imagine and visualize that you are sitting with them in a restaurant, feeling their energy, and pretend that you are in a “normal social setting.” Visualization and imaginary go a long way. Just try it.

So to all my extrovert friends, take care and hang in there. “This also shall pass.”