Jun 4, 2020 in Life Coaching
Lessons from my feathered friends
3 Lessons, those I could not learn with my human soulmates, My feathered friends taught me..
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Lessons from my feathered friends
[ Note: First of all I would like to Thank you all for the overwhelming response, support and well wishes for my previous articles, it was an absolute pleasure to receive such encouragement there are not enough words to express gratitude but please know that each comment was greatly welcomed and gracefully accepted. ]
3 Lessons, those I could not learn with my human soulmates, My feathered friends taught me.
“Lyme, jack & Jill”
Lesson 1: Let go
I learned: It is very important to realise that nothing happens ‘to’ you every thing happens ‘for’ you, What ever happen is always neutral it’s only the way you look at it makes it good or bad, here I am not saying, not to feel anything good or bad and be numb towards everything, what I am saying is feel everything (because to heal you need to feel) but once you allowed your self to feel the feeling do not hold on..
LET IT ALL GO.
Lesson 2: Surrender
I learned: that the saying, “the tighter you hold the sand in your hands the more it will sleep through the fingers” and this works the same way for expectations too, the more you expect from a situation, a person or even from your own self the less would be the chances for the desired outcome because expectations brings everything to the surface: fear, concerns, doubt every thing and when you are in all these lower vibrational energies how can something high vibrational manifest? so..
Lesson 3: Trust the Devine timing
I learned: Do I ever question why I do not allow my kid to drive at the age of 5 ?! Then why should I ever question when universe doesn’t allow me to have something while I am not ready?
Do you ever go to a restaurant, place an order for your food and then go to the kitchen every minute to check with the chefs whether your food is being prepared or not? I suppose the most answers would be no, you know you have arrived and seated at the restaurant you know you have placed the order and you know it will be delivered to your table when it will be ready similarly when your asking and wanting something from God or universe or whichever higher power you believe in than..
TRUST IN DIVINE TIMING.
Alas I learned these the hard way, My friends lost their own lights to illuminate my way.
I can’t decide weather to be happy for having such beautiful souls in my soul tribe or to be sad loosing such beautiful friends in my (human) 3D life!
I can’t describe the feelings with just words.
I can’t express the loss with just sorrow.
I can’t accept the epiphany with just grace.
Prayers,emotions and gratitudes are words too small to describe what is in my mind.
If I could I would like to ask forgiveness for my unrealised sins towards you if any, you make me proud of myself for having a soul family so loving and kind. Fly high my feathered friends , I know you are safe and happier where you are.
I shall see you over the rainbow bridge, until then keep guiding me, keep shining your lights brightly on my path for I will need your love and support till eternity.
And to conclude,
I can not say thank you with just gestures but,
Thanks a bunch for teaching me the lessons of self love “Berry”.
Please stay with us as long as you can and keep bathing me in the showers of your unconditional love.
Love you loads. xxx