Nov 24, 2020 in Life Coaching

Express before it’s late

Don’t stay stuck, take the lead to move things forward.

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

27 Mar

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

27 Mar

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

27 Mar

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

27 Mar

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

27 Mar

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

27 Mar

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

27 Mar

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

15 Mar

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

15 Mar

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Don’t stay stuck, Take a lead & communicate,
Take authority to move things forward.

Do you ever think before contacting a loved one that why should I always contact them when they never contact me, do you ever contemplate to spend quality time with your family but postponed it due to work, do you ever wait for things to be better and fall into place before you actually enjoy here and now? if the answer is a big yes then this guidance may be helpful for you. life is very short and uncertain, the thing is we often don’t let people know how much we care or love them and when we loose them we realise and wish that we could have been able to express enough, how much they were loved.

We need not rush through the life, every now and then it’s important to slow down notice appreciate & express gratitude towards what we already have, so take the lead today to communicate with your loved ones ask them how are they doing?! keep check on them and do it form the place of unconditional love do not expect a particular response or reply, just do it because you want to do it not because you want to prove something to someone, leave the work stress at work, stay powerfully present in the moment when you are with family and purely listen to what they want to say not to react but to respond, enjoy the present moment instead of regretting the past or planning the future because past is gone & future is yet to come.

Do not delay things act now, spend as much time with your loved once as you can. That business call can wait. That important work meeting can be rearranged. Live the life to fullest. Emotional and social gains are as important as Material gains so balance your life because for a chariot to move forward both the wheels need to be equal and balanced. If your relationships are feeling stuck, if you feel it’s at stale mate position or you are juggling your thoughts to communicate then be courageous to take the authority to move things forward, roll the ball, seize the day because tomorrow is never promised. So show them that they are loved because you care. It’s always good to be safe then feel sorry afterwards.

Hope this has helped,I wish you all endless joy.
NAMASTE