Dec 11, 2020 in Life Coaching
Navigate through difficult Decisions
Decide in faith not fear
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Some times in life we reach at crossroads where decision making becomes extremely difficult, on onside there are emotions where as on the other end there is a logic & practicalities, in this circumstances if we just rely on our intuition or think that I have faith that everything will be well and as per Devine will and I don’t need to do anything or everything will be as per destiny and I do not have to express my opinion or display any actions or take a stand from my end, than that is not a righteous way to deal with the problems, because Devine will is always based on the choices we make, we reap what we saw, and non action is also a choice so the best way is balance, just like stillness of water let’s all the impurities settle down at the bottom similarly balance eliminates all the negativity.
When we are at an authoritative or deciding position in our life and when we find ourselves juggling between emotions and logic, the most important thing in that situation is to establish balance, we need to create our own balanced state of mind which is separate from what others are thinking or believing and gain clarity on what is the righteous thing to do in that particular moment of time with consideration of the future consequences of our current actions & it needs to be free from our ego and past experiences. Making decisions to follow your vibrations even when those around you advise the contrary, takes a lot of courage and deep commitment. Magic powers do consists in true faith but true faith rests in spiritual knowledge, true faith can not exist without true knowledge that no one is coming to save us, the way we want to create our life is 100% our own responsibility. The divine is just the witness of all, so remain still and quite even during intense turbulence by taking the deep breath and quieting the mind, let the peaceful calm Take over and than take an action.
We always need to keep in mind that there is a fine line between faith and fear. Fear based decisions can never bring prosperity, faith is good only when you have demonstrated righteousness actions on the given time, god also helps people who help them selves, who always display courage to take justified actions and stay in balanced mental state of mind, anything in excessive amount is toxic, too many emotions can become a symbol of weakness similarly too much of logic also can lead a person towards stubbornness and arrogance, justice only gets served when there is a good balance between the two. All we need to do is perform a balanced, justified & righteous action and than surrender the outcome, rest assured you will magnetically attract what you deserve & it will come to you at the perfect time.
I wish you all endless joy.