Jul 8, 2020 in Life Coaching
Make giving your way of living
Benefits of indulging in the act of service
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Many times I see people get stuck in their comfort zone out of necessity or complete contentment, they don’t want to move from where they are in their life even when they find themselves contemplating about making a change in their idle but thought full moments, either because they can not find a reason to make a change or they can find hundred reasons not to make the change
Say for example some people stay stuck in the boring unsatisfying jobs because of their materialistic requirements where as others don’t want to do anything because their material requirements are easily fulfilled by some external factor both of these situations can keep one stuck at a stalemate position in life & make a person completely unproductive having a lack of motivation. Initially these can seem like happy comfortable life but eventually one looses the excitement & enthusiasm because they keep doing what the don’t like entirely or the don’t do anything at all.
To keep life interesting there needs to be change and adventure because for Growth struggle is must nothing can evolve to the higher level within a favourable surroundings.
Although the way of living is completely a matter of personal choices and circumstances the way out of this situation is to engage oneself in to service towards humanity or to creation in general .
Because if we look at ourselves we always take from our surroundings & society in-terms of food air habitats nourishment nurturing so it’s our essential duty to give back as and when we can & with what ever possible way & capacity we possess.
Volunteering towards any kind of service work in general can give you satisfaction and sense of duty fulfilment, and dwelling in those feelings can open doors of possibilities and change in general life situations. It can provide you personal growth as well as emotional and social contentment plus it keeps you humble & grounded by keeping you in connection with source this service can be in any way or form but it’s should not be only on material level it need personal & physical involvement say for example give time and energy to a cause close to your heart, or involvement toward social awareness & revolution of some kind,
So if you feel stuck dedicating yourself towards service is a great way to find motivation & purpose for your immediate day today life because everyone has some kind of skill they can donate you need not be passionate about something just recognise your skills or expertise to serve & act on your findings some times by doing it often one should be able to find enjoyment. & remember gains are not always only monetary gains can be in terms of experience, emotional fulfilment, social circle & personal growth or simply increase in happiness. Nothing you give gets wasted it come back to you in thousands of folds in unexpected ways. So if you feel stuck start moving
Don’t have to take big leaps take baby steps & if you feel lack start giving
Don’t have to wait till you have enough start with what ever you can.