Mar 24, 2020 in Life Coaching

The strange Mind

Do you control your mind or does your mind control you ?

10 members found this to be effective.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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You were designed by evolutionary proceses to percieve and react to negative stimuli, sexual stimuli and threat more readily and spontaneously for the purpose of survival and reproduction. That leaves the mind hypoactive to positivity and happiness. For these things you have to force your mind into a positive mindset with deliberation and intent. By committed and strong decision to control the flow of your thoughts from the negative to the positive. This is a very high transformational shift that requires time, energy and power of will. This could be done by achieving a state of mindfulness, fulfilment and peace aquired through the principles of conscious auto suggestion and priming. Changing your state to change your perspective. Self descipline and consistency play a detrimental role here and are influenced by your level of motivation for the achievement of your goal. Your motivation in turn depends upon the meaning you associate with your goal. The more personal and introspective the meaning the higher the motivation.

Now because most of this thinking works on a subconscious, subliminal and even unconscious levels, it is hard for a person to unpack them fully, structure them and manifest them. And hence the need for coaching.

Coaching will help you to be absolutely sure about your goal. Wether it is your goal or have you adopted it from elsewhere. It will help you figure out your true realistic options and help you choose.

This creates a greater understanding of self and motivations and the motives behind the motivations. So let me help you by unpacking things for you and help you with the decisions you need to make to transform your life into the life you truly want to live. This could mean changing various small and big components of your life.

The change begins in the thoughts first, because you become what you think about. The thought and emotion discipline in most cases is the first step.

So let me serve you, take a leaf of faith on yourself and let me free you from the chains that always drag you down.