Sep 16, 2021 in Life Coaching
What's My Most Frequently Asked Question?
Find out what my potential clients ask most often.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
As a life coach, I communicate with many potential clients during my complimentary discovery calls. There is one question that I get asked the most…Why don't I t offer couple coaching sessions? This blog will address why I have a policy of not coaching couples together.
Intimacy is such a spectrum of personal choices, experiences, and desires. There are so many factors that go into why a is turned on by a certain act, look or scenario. Childhood traumas and experiences are never truly shared experiences by two people. The things a person experiences, especially during the onset of puberty, can and does shape what turns them on and off later in life. Another key factor is religious upbringing or the lack thereof. A person raised in a strict religious household may have a more conservative view on intimacy versus a person raised in a home where religion wasn’t as prevalent. Those are just a few examples of what can make a person like what they like, but really, it just is what it is sometimes. Often, there’s no rhyme or reason to why a person desires something and that’s totally okay.
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Freedom to speak honestly and freely. I don’t care how long a couple has been together, they do NOT know all the deep desires and kinks their partner might have. There’s always SOMETHING that a partner keeps hidden. I think that it’s better for a coach to be able to know that during a session a client is being honest. Sitting next to your partner often hinders the way a person will answer a question or recall an event. For coaching to truly be successful, transparency is of the utmost importance.
Perspective, two people can view the same event and have two totally different perspectives of what occurred at the event. This is the reason why I coach couples but in separate sessions. For example, I had a couple and the husband’s chief complaint was that he felt unwanted by his wife. After a session with his wife, I discovered that he offers, no foreplay doesn’t know or listen to her body, and only seemed to be concerned with his orgasm. I called the husband back and asked him one simple question…” What turns your wife on?” He could not answer. That let me know that the issue with the couple’s lack of intimacy wasn’t on the wife’s part at all. It was the husband that needed to be a more attentive lover and learn to listen to his wife’s body. I was able to figure this out in ONE “session”. If I had this couple sitting together, I feel the wife would have not been as forthcoming and the husband wouldn’t have been more receptive to my guidance.
To sum it up, I do coach couples, but only in separate sessions and never repeat what’s told to me by the partner. In the end, my goal is to have my client live the best life for THEM. Often, it’s not with the person they think it is. A nonjudgmental, safe space to be transparent and open is often needed when seeking clarity.