Feb 14, 2020 in Business Coaching
What is your Leadership style?
This article helps you in assessing your leadership style. It will help you in mapping your style based on purpose vs. people skills.
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My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
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Idk what to do
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What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Leadership styles are behavioral traits and personalities which are consistently exhibited by leaders in various situations.
These styles can be divided into 4 quadrants showing the Leader’s predominant style:
- Ensures that results are effective
- Focuses on inventing more than improving
- Challenges norms, anticipates and removes obstacles
- Values intellectual competence
- Ensures results are in line with values
- Focuses on helping people grow
- Champions the team to achieve results
- Values making a difference
- Ensures that results help people
- Focuses on listening and on sharing information
- Is quick to praise, thank and reward
- Values the individual
- Ensures clear objectives, procedures and measures
- Focuses on continuous improvement
- Has a disciplined and efficient approach
- Values logic & physical competence
View the attached self-assessment map to find out your Leadership style.
Leadership Divergence > these are polarities which drive outcomes:
Strategic Leadership > Focused on vision, values, mission. Designs changes
Collaborative Leadership > Brings out the best in people. Inspires transformation
Directive Leadership > Clear and firm. Helps overcome inertia
Tactical Leadership > Monitors key task details.Causes incremental improvement
Too much & Too little of Leadership styles:
Un-Purposeful Leaders are AIMLESS
Over-Purposeful Leaders are FANATICAL
Un-Inspirational Leaders are DULL
Over-Inspirational Leaders are MESMERIZING
Un-Considerate Leaders are HARSH
Over-Considerate Leaders are GULLIBLE
Un-Organized Leaders are CHAOTIC
Over-Organized Leaders are MECHANISTIC
If you consider the Leadership style map on an (X,Y) axis; and max value of X and Y is 3, then:
FANATICAL would be (-3,3)
MESMERIZING would be (3,3)
GULLIBLE would be (3,-3)
MECHANISTIC would be (-3,-3)