Jun 16, 2021 in Life Coaching

What Does Love Mean to You?

What does true love mean to you? Is it what the media says it should be or is it what your past tells you it should be?

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

29 May

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

29 May

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

31 May

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

31 May

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

29 May

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

29 May

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

29 May

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

30 May

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

30 May

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Love is one of the most powerful energies that we have within us. It is the one thing that we can freely give and receive as much or as little as we choose.

But has it become tarnished with expectations we have placed on it and therefore, doesn't feel like a good place anymore?

When working with clients, who have had their heartbroken, not once but maybe a few times, the pain is felt in their whole presence. Their words say one thing but their eyes tell a different story.

Love has become an ugly word to them and the thought of being vulnerable again is something that they want to avoid. But the sad thing is...you can't blame love. The longer you do so, the longer you stay in the pain and the suffering.

Love is pure energy that is here for us to enjoy. Its a sharing and caring connection, not just within intimate relationships, but also with family and friends. When you block love from your life due to past experiences, you are blocking yourself off from the one thing that can help you heal...self-love.

Self - love is love. It is the most powerful form of love. When you make the decision to block yourself off from giving love to another anymore, in essence, you are blocking yourself off from giving love to yourself. And without loving yourself, you just become a bitter, hard-hearted person, who suffers and wants everyone around them to suffer too, as they can't come close to you because you ward them off by energetically blocking them.

This is not loving and this is not living. No matter what, you deserve to give love and receive love and to enjoy the gifts that love can bring to your life.

But the question you have to ask yourself before you can allow love back into your heart and life again is...What does love mean to you?

If it means pain than its time to heal this and allow yourself to let it go (I can help you heal all that crap out - feel free to contact me to discuss how I can help).

If it means joy and excitement than you are on the right track to living a happy and fulfilled life. Love is that powerful that it can really transform your life for the better, but you have to be willing to let go of the past and let go of negative perceptions of vulnerability and falling in love again.

Are you ready?