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Jun 16, 2021 in 

What Does Love Mean to You?

What does true love mean to you? Is it what the media says it should be or is it what your past tells you it should be?

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Love is one of the most powerful energies that we have within us. It is the one thing that we can freely give and receive as much or as little as we choose.

But has it become tarnished with expectations we have placed on it and therefore, doesn't feel like a good place anymore?

When working with clients, who have had their heartbroken, not once but maybe a few times, the pain is felt in their whole presence. Their words say one thing but their eyes tell a different story. 

Love has become an ugly word to them and the thought of being vulnerable again is something that they want to avoid. But the sad thing is...you can't blame love. The longer you do so, the longer you stay in the pain and the suffering.

Love is pure energy that is here for us to enjoy. Its a sharing and caring connection, not just within intimate relationships, but also with family and friends. When you block love from your life due to past experiences, you are blocking yourself off from the one thing that can help you heal...self-love.

Self - love is love. It is the most powerful form of love. When you make the decision to block yourself off from giving love to another anymore, in essence, you are blocking yourself off from giving love to yourself. And without loving yourself, you just become a bitter, hard-hearted person, who suffers and wants everyone around them to suffer too, as they can't come close to you because you ward them off by energetically blocking them. 

This is not loving and this is not living. No matter what, you deserve to give love and receive love and to enjoy the gifts that love can bring to your life.

But the question you have to ask yourself before you can allow love back into your heart and life again is...What does love mean to you?

If it means pain than its time to heal this and allow yourself to let it go (I can help you heal all that crap out - feel free to contact me to discuss how I can help).

If it means joy and excitement than you are on the right track to living a happy and fulfilled life. Love is that powerful that it can really transform your life for the better, but you have to be willing to let go of the past and let go of negative perceptions of vulnerability and falling in love again.

Are you ready?

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