Oct 18, 2019 in Life Coaching
Stop Asking Why
Trying to work out why something didn't work out can destroy you and have a negative impact on your life.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
When things don't work out the one thing to avoid is to fill your head with questions of 'Why'?
'Why did it not work out?'
'Why did he change?'
'Why did they say what they said?'
'Why were they so mean to me?'
Endless questioning leads to only one thing - sleepless nights and depression.
While you are trying to work out what is going on in another's mind, life is passing you by.
Trust me the other person is living their life - so why aren't you?
Too many of us are still living in the past and hanging onto past events and letting past events control our now. This is not living.
This is wasting life. What you should be focused on is your future and building a new future. A future of joy and fulfillment.
You have to break free from the questioning. You will never have your answer, as we can never really know what is going on in anothers mind, so stop it now.
Add to myWE:
The mind that you are in control of is your own. Use your mind, which is your most powerful tool to create a better, happier life for yourself.
Stop focusing on something that is of no value to you anymore.
Value yourself and let go of the past. The door is open to your future.
Stop looking back and look ahead towards your future.
Remember, you receive what you focus on, so by focusing on that which caused you pain and confusion, you are only going to create more of it.
Do you want that?
Be the powerful person that you are and let go of the past and the questions and move ahead to life with a clear head.
Trust me you will be glad you did.