Sep 6, 2019 in Life Coaching
"I don't have the answer, what do I do?"
We always expect to have all the answers in life, but what if you don't.? Is it a bad thing?
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Boy the number of times in my life, I have felt the panic and uncertainty from this question! Too many times!!!
Not having the answers to things you feel that you should know, can be very stressful and can often lead to you feeling like a failure and weak.
But I want you to know, that sometimes life calls for us to give up being all-knowing. Yes, that's right...that's exactly what I said and meant.
The greatest lessons in life that transform us, come from starting out...not knowing.
No one ever knows the 100% outcome of everything we do.
For example - you could achieve success at an interview and love the fact that you showed them you had the right skills for the role. But you don't know if this time next year you will still want the job as much as you did at the interview. People change, life changes and with that, uncertainty comes into play.
We deal with uncertainty every single day. But we don't focus on it, and this is where the panic is decreased.
You were never created to go into anything knowing everything...that would be boring and your soul won't expand beyond what it already is. That just results in de-motivation.
Not having the answer gives you scope to learn more...more about life and more about yourself. It enables you to tap into new inspirations and as mentioned before, keeps you motivated, which enables you and your soul to expand in life.
One of the fundamental human emotions that we have to experience is a level of uncertainty and growth. If this is not experienced, we struggle.
So when you have a moment when you just don't know the answer, take a step back, breathe and say to yourself
"This is a good thing. I get to use this to my advantage and it makes me a better person in doing so...bring it on and let's see what I do with this!"
Use any form of uncertainty as a time to self reflect, release and grow from the process.
Life is an experience and often the experience of life comes from a place of not knowing.