Nov 26, 2021 in Life Coaching

Why are You So Afraid of You?

If you are struggling in life to make things happen and to pursue your life goals, you probably are afraid

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

29 May

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

29 May

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

22 May

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

22 May

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

29 May

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

29 May

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

29 May

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

30 May

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

30 May

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Yes, that's right... If you are struggling in life to make things happen and to pursue your life goals, you probably are afraid to really get connected within and get to know the true you and let her/him take over.

Now I know some will disagree with me here and that's ok...but no amount of mindset work, visualisation work and affirmation work, is going to get you moving forward if you insist on neglecting the inner work that needs to be done.

If you are scared to go within and clear those negative subconscious blocks that you keep holding on to, guess what? They will remain.

They are not going anywhere any time soon and they will constantly haunt you and hold you down until you face them head-on and deal with them.

You can't cover things up with positivity when internally you are carrying all this baggage. You need to lighten the load so the positive stuff can get in!

Your true essential Higher self is within you. The answer is within you. The strength is within you. All that you need to keep moving forward and make your dreams a reality is within you.

So why are you holding yourself back?

Your baggage can only be cleared by you. You have to make the decision to stop turning your back on yourself and start facing what is really going on here.

You need you!

And you will find yourself within.

So stop being afraid to go within. Allow yourself to clear this mess up and start afresh.

You can recite all the affirmations you want, you can change your thoughts to positive 100 times over and over again...but if it ain't going within to your subconscious because of all the blocks...it ain't helping you at all.

You will feel good one moment...and down another and the cycle continues.

Stop the cycle! Claim back your life and give yourself permission to do the internal work and clear the crap to make way for the positives that's where true transformation begins.

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