Sep 27, 2021 in Life Coaching

Create Instead of React

Are you a Creator or a Reactor?

10 members found this to be effective.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Are you a Creator or a Reactor?

You are born a creator but you may have fallen into the role of reactor too many times and this can change the dynamics of your life ten-fold.

Reacting to situations and others constantly weakens your manifesting power and leaves you battling to get past situations and fighting to find solutions instead of actually doing what you are meant to do which is live!

You cannot enjoy life and move forward successfully when you are constantly fighting with the past or fears about the future. This happens as a result of reacting instead of creating.

It's time to let go of this role and really start stepping into that creator role you are born to be.

Life is a blessing and full of opportunities to manifest the best life you chose to live.

Manifesting doesn't have to be difficult. It wasn't meant to be.

So how do you do this?

Well first of all you have to acknowledge where and when in your life you pull in that reactor role and how often you do it. Awareness is key.

What are the feelings and emotions that rise up within you before you start reacting? Recognise these and let these be your guide.

Our emotions are our indicators when we are moving away from manifesting what we want towards what we don't want and this needs to be your indicator to turn things around.

The emotions of reacting are based on fears and once this comes up for you, it's time to get practical and re-focus your energy towards your manifesting goals. This will help remind you that your aim is to keep your energy in a high vibration to attract the positive things in your life and be that creator you are meant to be.

So quit allowing yourself to react to life's hurdles... Step back into your creator shoes and start transforming your life in the direction of your dreams.

Original article: https://swasthyaliving.com/blog/f/create-instead-of-react