Aug 23, 2021 in Life Coaching
Wipe the Slate Clean
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Last night I was watching another episode of one of my 'guilty pleasure' reality shows '90 Day Fiance - The Single Life' and a couple of the ladies in the show, were struggling really badly to overcome past pain that they experienced from previous relationships. The pain was not just from one previous relationship that they had but a couple of experiences, which has made them put their guard up, and although they really want to find the right person and settle down happily, they are struggling to make this happen.
This emotional pain from the past is causing them to do crazy things that they would never have thought they would do, like 'ghosting' someone they really like, just because they are scared of getting hurt and being let down. Refusing to talk about how they are feeling and running away from a situation and disappearing for 4 days with no contact, which only required one conversation to deal with the problem and on and on it goes.
Now careerwise, most of these women are professional career women, who have a great career and can make decisions that are right for them easily. They are financially established and independent women. But something happens when it comes to matters of the heart.
Add to myWE:
They carry the emotional baggage with them wherever they go and for some reason refuse to put it down. This is causing sadness, heaviness, and lack of true fulfillment in their lives.
Is this you?
Can you relate to this?
Sister, you are not alone.
There are many successful professional career women, who have it all together when it comes to their professional life, but when it comes to matters of the heart, it all falls apart around them.
This is where you need to extinguish those flames from past relationships, clear that baggage and start making plans to move forward with freedom within your heart and ready to make a fresh start.
You should not be treating every new person you meet with punishment due to what you experienced before. They are not the same person!
Your number one priority right now is to get healing from all the past and let that crap go!
You cannot continue like this. It's not fair to you and it's not fair to a potential partner.
Your number one priority is not to go straight out there and collect another trophy you will call a disaster..it is to clear the mess before you start dating again.
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