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Aug 23, 2021 in 

Wipe the Slate Clean

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Last night I was watching another episode of one of my 'guilty pleasure' reality shows '90 Day Fiance - The Single Life' and a couple of the ladies in the show, were struggling really badly to overcome past pain that they experienced from previous relationships. The pain was not just from one previous relationship that they had but a couple of experiences, which has made them put their guard up, and although they really want to find the right person and settle down happily, they are struggling to make this happen.

This emotional pain from the past is causing them to do crazy things that they would never have thought they would do, like 'ghosting' someone they really like, just because they are scared of getting hurt and being let down. Refusing to talk about how they are feeling and running away from a situation and disappearing for 4 days with no contact, which only required one conversation to deal with the problem and on and on it goes.

Now careerwise, most of these women are professional career women, who have a great career and can make decisions that are right for them easily. They are financially established and independent women. But something happens when it comes to matters of the heart.

They carry the emotional baggage with them wherever they go and for some reason refuse to put it down. This is causing sadness, heaviness, and lack of true fulfillment in their lives.

Is this you?

Can you relate to this?

Sister, you are not alone. 

There are many successful professional career women, who have it all together when it comes to their professional life, but when it comes to matters of the heart, it all falls apart around them.

This is where you need to extinguish those flames from past relationships, clear that baggage and start making plans to move forward with freedom within your heart and ready to make a fresh start.

You should not be treating every new person you meet with punishment due to what you experienced before. They are not the same person!

Your number one priority right now is to get healing from all the past and let that crap go!

You cannot continue like this. It's not fair to you and it's not fair to a potential partner.

Your number one priority is not to go straight out there and collect another trophy you will call a is to clear the mess before you start dating again.

Want to know how you can do just that?

Book a free call with me and find out.

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