Aug 11, 2021 in Life Coaching

What's up Beautiful one?

Are you feeling a little down and finding yourself thinking about your relationships and in particular your ex?

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

16 Nov

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

16 Nov

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

16 Nov

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

16 Nov

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

16 Nov

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

16 Nov

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

16 Nov

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Are you feeling a little down and finding yourself thinking about your relationships and in particular your ex?

Does this normally happen during the period when you are not too busy? Gorgeous, this is perfectly normal and although can be frustrating, it is part of the healing process.

Letting go of anyone in life always meets with a period of 'bereavement' as that person was a part of your life for a while.

But please beautiful one, please don't lose hope and think it's all downhill. You will move past this period if you allow yourself to.

One of the key things that will help you through this is to focus on your strengths. You are a successful high-achieving career woman, who knows how to manage things in relation to your career, so this is a great strength.

You do have the power within you to move forward and transform your life. Your relationship is one part of your life, but this can be changed by tapping into the mindset that you use in your profession.

Now, this does not mean that you work, work, work (as Rihanna states), but you use the mindset that you use to solve problems in your career, to help you deal with this emotional setback in your personal life.

So how do you solve problems in your career? What has been your go-to method?

Mindset and Healing go hand in hand and when you regularly allow yourself to get into the 'solution mindset' this will help you move forward.

Looking at your current situation from a practical viewpoint is a start to moving forward and releasing the pain. It will give you the momentum to keep moving forward in spite of the loss instead of staying in the cloud of emotional loss for too long.

You can do it beautifully, it just takes a balance of mindset work and healing work.

The low moments will arise and you have to allow them to pass by as they come up. Don't stay too long in being the victim of what was and give yourself the power of moving forward.

It isn't easy but there is support out there to get you moving forward again.

Connecting with a friend, arranging a social activity, or go for a pamper treatment that lifts you up and makes you feel good. These are some of the ways you can break up the pattern of melancholy.

And don't forget...I am here to help you. Book on a free call with me and let's talk about the mindset/healing balance that I can help you achieve.

You can do this beautiful... This is just a blip in time, but you will overcome it, you just have to want to move forward and trust in yourself that the answers are within you.

Original article: https://swasthyaliving.com/blog/f/whats-up-beautiful-one