Aug 2, 2021 in Life Coaching

Refocus on You

Beautiful Lady breaking up is hard to do...

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

16 Nov

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

16 Nov

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

16 Nov

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

16 Nov

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

16 Nov

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

16 Nov

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

16 Nov

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Beautiful Lady breaking up is hard to do... Yes for those of us who remember, some of these words are taken from a classic song. But they do ring true.

Getting used to the behaviour patterns of another in your life and building a life together takes a lot of energy from yourself and when all this comes to an end and is no more, it can be so hard to change your pattern of life and re-adjust to a whole new lifestyle.

But it has to be done, divine soul.

For whatever reason your relationship didn't work, you now need to take that focus that was on another and place it all on yourself and make the necessary changes needed to help you to move forward.

It will feel strange at first, but you are an amazing gorgeous one and although you may not realise it right now, this is the time to discover it.

You will need to first let the tears flow and release the emotions. Keeping these in and throwing yourself into work for longer hours may seem like a good idea to start with, but in the long run, you are not letting go of the situation and therefore, this still lingers in your energy field, which will come back to hinder you when you are ready to start dating again.

So give yourself the time to spend quality time on yourself. Focus on yourself and what you need that you can give yourself.

When you are in a relationship you may have focused on work and your partner and then again on work and your partner and a few bits of you poked your head in once in a while. But mostly it may have been all 'being a couple' and work.

So now gorgeous one...it's all you!

And now you get to spoil you and heal you and give you the best love that you can so, lift your energy and manifest even better than you had before.

It's time to step into those heels and strut your stuff and be the centre of attention in your life.

Work is still going strong and you are doing exceptionally well, but now you need to bring yourself back in focus and balance your lifestyle.

Release, heal and let go of those emotions that came with your ex and get back to you!

Who runs your show? YOU DO!!!

So Gorgeous divine lady...take all that energy and focus it all on you and be the amazing queen that you are...you've got this!

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