Jul 5, 2021 in Life Coaching

The Blessings of Alone Time

Why not build a valuable relationship with your awesome self.

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

12 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

12 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

12 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

12 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

12 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

12 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

12 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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I often wondered why there is such a negative stigma when it comes to being on your own and having that time out from a relationship.

When you are no longer in a relationship, this period can be a time of bliss and an opportunity for you to enjoy and get to know your amazing self.

There is a divine blessing when you have quality time on your own. You build a relationship with yourself that is so much more valuable.

Now I am not saying that being on your own is a better option than being in a happy relationship, but c'mon being in a relationship doesn't have to be better than being on your own too.

You are a blessing to your life and you are an amazing woman who has so many gifts and you now finally have the time to explore those gifts without your time being compromised.

You get to experience life on a deeper level. You get to create life on your terms and also grow in self-awareness and self-knowledge, which can only serve you for the greater good.

We are all independent souls who need room to explore who we are and to explore this life that we have been gifted with.

Why not enjoy this gift of being on your own.

Why not build a valuable relationship with your awesome self.

Why not take that time out to really get to know you and fall in love with yourself.

By doing this, you are opening the doors to receiving a relationship that is just what you have been searching for and you would have created an understanding of exactly what you are looking for from a potential partner.

There are so many blessings when you take that time out for yourself. When you devote time to yourself and let your true self shine and be the star of your life.

Nothing and nobody can take this time away from you. It's a time of healing. It's a time of rejuvenating positive energy.

So don't listen to the naysayers who condemn those who are single.

Own your time being single and enjoy it, so when you are ready to meet someone new, you'll be stronger and ready to open the door to love again.

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