Jun 7, 2021 in Life Coaching

Be Aware of What Goes in...

Ooh, so what do I mean by this title??

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

16 Nov

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

16 Nov

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

16 Nov

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

16 Nov

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

16 Nov

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

16 Nov

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

16 Nov

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

16 Nov

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Ooh, so what do I mean by this title??

Ladies when you are intimate with someone, please make sure you are fully aware of who you are being intimate with.

Someone who is your ex or who does not treat you right is not the energy you want inside you.

Yes, I said it!

We are all energy beings living a human experience. Therefore, when you are intimate with another, you are involved in the exchanging of energies and energy be that good or bad can linger for a very long time, even past the time you have been together.

Wonder why you cannot seem to let go so easily once the relationship has finished or are repeating the same patterns in love?

You have taken on the negative energy and this is lingering around and it becomes stale energy the longer you allow it to consume your life. When you move onto another too quickly and don't take the necessary time and action to clear that energy, you are just spreading it into the lives of everyone you meet and consuming more of the same back.

It becomes a vicious negative cycle.

You need to stop this!!!

It's time to respect yourself and the energy you allow to circle in your life.

It's never about just going out there to sleep with someone to get rid of the pain...it's about choosing wisely who you are intimate with and at least checking they have good energy and not the same crap you have taken in before.

Ladies, if you are serious about releasing the negative cycle of relationship patterns in your life and are ready to respect and value your future and your future relationship goal of happiness and true love then you have to bring self-awareness into the equation.

You have become aware of what is good for you and clearing that energy from past relationships is your priority. If you want to rid of this pattern, this has to be number one on your to-do list.

So ladies when you are intimate with someone be sure of their past and their future goals and as hard as it may be, the more you know about their past relationships the better, cos you don't want to be taking on the negative energy of their past or the negative energy of their previous partners do you?

If you want to clear energy toxins from your past relationships, feel free to check out my Emotional Detox programme on my website to see how I can help you.

Original article: https://swasthyaliving.com/blog/f/be-aware-of-what-goes-in