Apr 8, 2021 in Life Coaching

Facing Your Fears

You can never move forward in life if you avoid those things that upset you or scare you.

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

30 Jan

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

30 Jan

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

1 Feb

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

1 Feb

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

30 Jan

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

30 Jan

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

30 Jan

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

3 Feb

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

3 Feb

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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One of the biggest fears is facing fears. Yes, you want to overcome your fears and not allow them to control you, but at the same time, you do not want to face them.

When I work with clients, I help them to face the fear and face the hurdle, so each individual can overcome the hurdles but also face the fear that scares them the most.

You can never move forward in life if you avoid those things that upset you or scare you. Life will always bring these fears to your table until you are willing to deal with them. Why does this happen?

Well, these fears are within your subconscious. So whatever is within your subconscious is what you will continue to attract as long as you continue to push it to one side and not deal with it. We always attract what is within our subconscious.

Your past pain, your fears, and your negative emotions can never be ignored as long as you allow them to resurface and try to avoid them. You will find that every time they come up for you, you become weaker and lose sight of inner strength and give up on yourself and your future.

They control you instead of you controlling their power over you.

So I urge you. If you are serious about change in your life and are serious about wanting happiness, fulfillment, and positive energy in your life and for your future, you have to step up and take action.

You have to look your fears and negative emotions in the eye and see them for what they are and deal with them.

You will have to face hurdles that come up in daily living and face this head-on and may have to have those conversations you dread having.

But I assure you, once you allow yourself to do this and take action and deal with it head-on, you will not only begin to be a better manager of your fears, but you will also begin to rid yourself of the pattern of behaviour that kept you down for so long and transform your future for the better.

It all starts with you - with a decision and an action.

Fear is always there. It never goes completely away. There is no one on this blessed earth that does not have fear, but it's how you deal with it, that transforms who you are.

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