Sep 17, 2021 in Life Coaching

Stop Waiting for the Perfect Moment

“Stop waiting for the perfect day or moment….take THIS day, THIS moment and lead it to perfection.” – Dr. Steve Maraboli

Ava Garcia

23 Mar

How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

23 Mar

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

16 Mar

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

13 Mar

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

13 Mar

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

23 Mar

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

16 Mar

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

16 Mar

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

15 Mar

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

15 Mar

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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“Stop waiting for the perfect day or moment….take THIS day, THIS moment and lead it to perfection.” – Dr. Steve Maraboli

For many things in life, we wait around for the perfect timing to go after our dreams and goals. The problem with this is that it sets us up for disappointment, stagnation, and failure. There’s never a perfect time or day. The universe comprises moving energy, so you can be moving and creating positive momentum, or you can sit still in stagnation. The choice is yours.

Career & Relationships

If you are in a career or a relationship you tolerate but don’t appreciate, external factors control you and your hopes of a happy life may dwindle. If you’re not happy inside, don’t you think it’s time to do something about it? Or perhaps you’ve tried to change your situation, to no avail. Perhaps, it’s time to try something different?

You deserve a happy life with a career and relationships you enjoy. Everyone does. If you’ve settled in areas in your life, due to other people’s expectations or society’s propaganda, it’s time to take a stand and declare you won’t tolerate it any longer. It is time to make a list of things you want and create action steps to propel you forward.

A Wonderful Life Is Available Now

I know friends that are happy inside with a so-so job, little money, and no relationship. I also know other friends that are happy inside with a great career, lots of money, and a relationship. They’ve tapped into the power to be happy regardless of their material possessions. They learned an attitude of happiness and gratitude NOW, as opposed to SOMEDAY is more productive for them. They’re not “waiting” for the perfect moment to occur before they allow happiness to consume them.

Most people want a happy life and seek “things” and “people” to make them happy, but the problem is, happiness does not arise from things and people; it comes from inside. It requires walking a path of cultivating happiness through the journey of life. It takes a season to slow down, contemplate life, face your pain, ask the hard questions, challenge yourself, etc. I assure you though, happy life is available to you now.

What are you willing to do differently?

If you want to settle where you are, I respect that, but I don’t recommend it. Maybe you’re in denial and offer the common phrase, “I’m fine” when asked how you are, but you’re miserable on the inside. You say you want a better life but you’re not willing to do anything different. You’re unwilling to travel a road you haven’t traveled before. You may be scared or just plain tired.

I understand, but I believe you can do better. I believe everyone can.

Oh, Happy Life!

I’ve experienced periods in my life where I wasn’t full of happiness. Not that I didn’t want to be happy; I didn’t know how to be. What I knew was how to keep pressing forward no matter what. I believed I could find happiness. It didn’t come in the way I expected. It might not come the way you expect, but there’s a wellspring of happiness within you. As soon as you acknowledge it, you’ll smile and realise life has more to offer – even if nothing has yet changed in your life.

Stop waiting for the perfect moment to be happy or accomplished. Make your happiness a priority. Tell your partner, your boss, your friends, and your family you will change the situation, with the first thing being your perspective. You will stop trying to meet other people’s expectations. You will discover who you are and joy bubbling within you, waiting for you to release it.

Today is the perfect day to acknowledge your success, your happiness, and your fulfilled dreams. You don’t need to wait for a set of circumstances to happen. Life is what we make of it, so let’s make our dreams come true – beginning today!

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