Jul 1, 2021 in Life Coaching
The Story Of The Third Man Factor
The point I am making with this post is that we are not alone, especially during your toughest times.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
“Then all at once I became aware of something new and strange, a consciousness of a ‘presence’, a feeling that I was not alone.” – Ernest Shackleton
I received a book recently from a friend called The Third Man Factor by John Geiger. The book is about what’s been called the third man factor which appears as a present to people who are in arduous or extreme conditions. These conditions might include ascending Mt Everest, trekking across The Antarctic, the wilderness, or a remote location where isolation is common.
I’m about one hundred pages into the book and loving it already. The appealing element lies in the possible causes of the third man factor. It’s been suggested that hallucinations, low blood sugar levels and deprivation of oxygen to the brain are some of the likely causes. The author, who has a medical background suspects there could be more to it than that, citing angel phenomena as another possible explanation – yet to be proven of course. Catholicism presents a different view of angels and I am not here to present an argument about its religious significance or otherwise.
We are not alone
The point I am making with this post is that we are not alone, especially during our toughest times. As I may have mentioned, my father passed away over sixteen years ago. I often dream about him from time to time. He might speak to me in my dream or gesture that all is well and my life is unfolding as it should. I awake comforted and reassured with an inner knowing I am being guided. The dreams appear to me when I am facing a situation where I need guidance or clarity on. The message comes to me in whatever way the universe deems fit to deliver it – you just have to ask in order to receive.
Some time ago when I was researching angels, a friend of mine who is a kinesiologist and into the whole angel thing prompted me to ask for their guidance. At first, her advice was a little farfetched. She was inviting me to conduct a conversation with my angels and spirit guides. I found this a little scary and weird at first and not entirely comfortable. I remain open to most things these days and suspend judgment until I have conducted my due diligence.
I decided to test her theory and one day asked allowed “who is my guardian angel?” “make yourself known to me.” I repeatedly heard the words ‘Lucifer’ in my mind and was a little taken aback thinking hang on, this can’t be my angel. Something’s wrong here. So I asked again and listened intently this time, in case I miss-heard the message. Again, the name Lucifer was recited. I logged onto Google (thank goodness for Google when you’re hearing angel voices!) and looked up Lucifer to find he (I’m using a gender bias here since it sounds more masculine, so bear with me on this one) was a fallen angel and that St Michael was the angel sent to rage a battle against Satan’s forces.
I thought what the heck am I doing? – looking up angels. Come on Tony, get with the program already. Anyway, over the weeks, strange things occurred reassuring me my angel was indeed St Michael, the protector. While I was walking down the street one day, it started to rain. As I was looking for shelter from the ensuing deluge, I accidentally bumped into an old man who was also seeking shelter. A number of cards fell out of his hands spilling onto the ground. I apologised and knelt down to pick up the cards. I noticed the cards had fallen face down except for one card. They were angel cards and the one that was facing up was, you guessed it – St Michael. The name of the angel was inscribed at the bottom of the card.
Whilst I am not inviting you to accept the idea of angels, I am however suggesting that there may be a force greater than you choose to believe. These forces are willing to help and guide you through life – only if you trust and ask for it.
I suggest you read the book The Third Man Factor and draw your own conclusion as to what you hold true about angels or spirit guides. Personally, I feel I am never alone. I am being guided and supported throughout my life’s journey. Whether I am dreaming of my late father or otherwise, I release positive energy and vibration into the universe and trust it will return back to me multiplied. I remain open and unattached to the outcome, knowing all is unfolding exactly as it should.
Original article: https://www.tonyfahkry.com/the-story-of-the-third-man-factor/