Jun 18, 2019 in Business Coaching
How to sell well and increase profit. (You may be surprised by the answers!)
Why you are jumping in the middle of the sales process and missing out on business.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
These business related questions have come up in conversation in the last 24 hours and while I feel strongly that my coaching can address all of these fast, I appreciate coaching is not affordable to all, so I hope this article helps to get your sales moving upwards!
I’m struggling to grow my business, I’ve’ got awesome products and services why is it not working?
I’ve paid for ads on Facebook and that’s not worked and Facebook seems to be a waste of my time at the moment!
Should I pay for PR?
How do I get people to notice my business above everyone else’s that does the same as me?
I get questions like this all of the time and my first answer is not what many would expect.
The problem with these questions and many like them is that you are jumping in the middle. A baby does not attempt to drive a car or go to university. Obvious right?
And yet business owners so often are wanting to do quite complex and detailed marketing strategies when they’ve not built the strong foundations.
The strong foundations include these questions;
- Who are we as a company?
- What are my personal values and the company’s values?
- What are my personal and professional beliefs?
- What do we want to help people with?
- Why are we offering these products and services?
These questions all help you to focus on what your company represents and help you to build the brand. If you build a marketing strategy without fully appreciating what your brand is then you risk diluting your message, which the short answer is means you risk missing out on sales and repeat business.
By answering these questions in a ton of detail (bear in mind when I’m working with a coaching client then these questions could easily make up 1 to 2 hours session. You really need to understand these fundamentals!) you are able to really appreciate what your business is about. And that means if you can really appreciate this, then this features strongly in your marketing, communication and even your business growth actions because you are laser focused on what you want to achieve and why.
Top tip; When I work with a client, we will put one question on a piece of large paper and then I ask them a stack of coaching questions to help them really get to the very foundations of their business. This is critically important. Use coloured pens, post it notes, use mind maps, Veng graphs, Excel spread sheets.
Make it an incredibly personal journey. This means that as your company grows you can have a clear report that enables any new team member or marketing agency to get on board and sell from the same metaphorical hymn sheet as you! (One of the reasons that Marketing agencies fail to deliver for small companies is because the fundamentals have not been adequately addressed.)
When you’ve answered those questions, you’d think we can get on to the marketing strategy to bring in the sales right?
Nope! Again, people jump in the middle. If you find this is you, you may like to read The Shiny Thing Syndrome STS Article on my site. Hopefully it will make you less like a Catherine Wheel too. 2 articles I know have helped a lot of people. So let me know how you get on.
So the next step after understanding who you are and who your company is and that you know you are not going to go off in a hundred different directions and become this disjointed ineffective marketing demon. Is to understand the answers to these questions;
(Please do not dismiss any of them. I know from coaching thousands of people that to grow a business powerfully these answers come up time and time again. So don’t scrimp on your time here.)
When you answer these questions you will need to work hard to remind yourself not to become confined by comfort zones, limiting beliefs and thoughts like;
I’d like that but I don’t know where to start.
I’d love this but I have no tech skill.
That would be great but I just don’t have the budget for that!
I think that I just don’t have the time to do this, so it’s not for me is it?
The idea here is to think big picture, dream business, happy life, Disney Princess/Prince, Business Mogul, Ridiculously successful Entrepreneur. Have not one limiting thought. (You can see why you usually do this with a coach right?)
- How many hours do I want to work a week?
- How much holiday/free time/family and friend time do I want?
- How much money do I want to make?
- What life style do I want my business to create?
- Do I want to have staff?
- Do I want office (s)?
- What impact do I want to have on the world? My community? My causes?
Again as with the above questions, only put one question on one piece of paper, use a way of getting your ideas out that feels natural to you.
These questions enable you to start to see your price points and by understanding your price point you can start to understand who you are targeting and guess what? When you understand who you are actually targeting and not who you thought you wanted to (but they just wont’ spend any money, right?) then you can create a powerful marketing strategy! And get paid a decent salary to do it!
The point is that by understanding these really really really (have I stressed how important this stuff is?) important questions in minute detail then you “magically” can create a more powerful marketing strategy.
It is too much to start looking at your marketing strategy and plan in this blog article (because you may risk jumping ahead) so let me know how you get on and next;
- There’s a ton of free resources on this website and The Business Womans Network.
- I’ve a £5 a month mastermind group that is confidential (there is no upselling to be had here, it’s priced like that so it is accessible to all. And don’t let the price make you think it’s not high value. The Insiders are a power house of a team of business owners that don’t like posts for the sake of it, share genuine advice, feedback and ideas (not the likers that never buy or would like anything if they thought it would lead to a sale) and I add a ton of content and work sheets so that whatever you are facing we are able to support you to build confidence, build sales and a business you love. More info and to sign up
- If you are ready to invest a little my courses could be ideal. Public speaking, marketing success, elevator pitches, confidence boosting, 6 week business growth and foundation course. They are between £14 and £25 so not a big investment but could be an awesome ROI (Return on Investment.)
- And if you are attending The BWN I really am happy to sit and have a chat before or after any event.
Do let me know how you get on and don’t scrimp on investing in you – you deserve to be incredibly successful. xxx