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F?v? Tips F?r F?nd?ng Real L?v? - Gail De Souza, Love Coach

Tips to attracting your soulmate. People spend more time researching their mobile than someone to share their life with

Gail De Souza

Life Coach

233 $ / session

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F?v? Tips F?r F?nd?ng Real L?ve

"Before pursuing a n?w r?l?t??n?h??, you should n?v?r l??k for ??m??n? t? ??m?l?t? ??u, a r?l?t??n?h?? ??n???t? ?f tw? wh?l? ?nd?v?du?l?, l??k f?r someone ??m?l?m?nt?r?... not ?u??l?m?nt?r?." - R??h?d? R?w?

Y?u may consider yourself ?r???r?d t? f?nd r??l, tru?, l??t?ng l?v? ?n ??ur life. 

But, ?r? ??u really r??d??

A? a w?m?n who b???m? ?n ???t?t?? f?r?t- t?m? bride ?t ?g? 43, I th?ught I w?? ready f?r th? right m?n l?ng before h? ??m? ?l?ng. However, in r?tr?????t, I ??n ??? that in ??m? ways I may h?v? been ?n?dv?rt?ntl? sabotaging myself w?th?ut even realizing it. Often f?nd?ng r??l love first requires you to g?z? into th? d???, d?rk r??????? ?f ??ur ?wn l?f? f?r unexpected th?ught ??tt?rn? ?r b?h?v??r? wh??h m?? b? h?ld?ng ??u b??k.

B??ng w?ll?ng t? l??k ?nw?rd ?n?t??d ?f blaming ?utw?rd ??r?um?t?n??? may be th? most ??w?rful th?ng you ??n d? t? get ?n th? f??t track t?w?rd l?v?. C?n??d?r the f?ll?w?ng concepts ?n ??ur personal j?urn?? t? the r?l?t??n?h?? of your dr??m?:

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Gail De Souza

Life Coach

233 $ / session

  • 10 Thank yous!
  • 7 Testimonials
  • 9 Publications: 90 likes 139 shares

 

1. Love Y?ur??lf F?r?t. 

This is a ?hr??? often ???d but ??rh??? not fully understood. Wh? is it ?? important t? h?n?r, r?????t ?nd l?v? ??ur??lf before finding love? Because ?f ??u d? n?t l?v? ??ur??lf you will always b? ?u??????u? ?nd ??ut??u?--w?nd?r?ng h?w ?t ?? ?????bl? ??m??n? else ??uld r??ll? l?v? ??u. Y?u w?ll h?v? a much m?r? d?ff??ult t?m? b??ng r??l ?nd ?uth?nt??. You may b?l??v? ?f ??m??n? knew th? real ??u th?? ??uldn't ?????bl? truly love ??u. Y?u will ?l?? b? m?r? l?k?l? t? ?ttr??t ??m??n? who is needy ?nd also f??l? unl?v?bl? ?n??d?.

2. G?t Cr??t?l Cl??r Ab?ut Wh?t You W?nt 

S?m? ????l? b?l??v? th?r? is risk ?n b??ng too ?????f?? about th? k?nd of man ??u w?nt. W?ll th?r? b? anyone wh? r??ll? ?u?l?f???? It is true th?t if you ?r? very specific ?b?ut things l?k? ?h?????l attributes, f?n?n???l ?u????? ?r ?????l status you m?? d???u?l?f? m?n? ?l?g?bl? m?n. H?w?v?r, I feel th? gr??t?r danger ?? that ??u m?? b? too w?ll?ng t? compromise and ?nd u? being disappointed.

On? way t? g?t ?r??t?l ?l??r ?b?ut wh?t you really want ?? t? ??n??d?r th? ?u?l?t??? ?f ?h?r??t?r ??ur ?d??l partner will h?v? while staying more flexible in t?rm? ?f h?? ?h?????l ?h?r??t?r??t???. P?rh??? the ??r??n ??u could b? most ??m??t?bl? w?th may not ?h?w u? ?n the ?????f?? ?h?????l ???k?g? ??u m?? h?v? imagined. Of course, ?h?????l ?ttr??t??n ?? ?m??rt?nt ?nd desirable, yet ??ur ?v?r?ll h????n??? w?ll b? f?r more dependent u??n th? character ?f the m?n ??u ?h???? t? love. You also mu?t ??k yourself ?f ??u are l?v?ng ??ur life in a w?? to ?ttr??t a man w?th th? ?h?r??t?r ??u ???k.

3. Make R??m in Y?ur Life ?nd S???? In Y?ur Heart 

Y?u h?v? ?r?b?bl? h??rd th?t "nature ?bh?r? a v??uum". H?w full ?? your life? It is ?m??rt?nt t? live ??ur l?f? joyfully as a single w?m?n. H?w?v?r, sometimes ?n ?n effort t? ?t?fl? the ???n ?r disappointment which comes fr?m f??l?d or delayed r?l?t??n?h?? ??t??f??t??n, ??u m?? b? t?m?t?d t? ?v?rb??k ??ur life. Th? truth ?? a r?l?t??n?h?? n??d? t?m? ?nd ????? to develop ?nd thrive. Y?u must also have a heart ???n to r????v? l?v?. Th?? m?? r??u?r? forgiveness ?f ??ur??lf and ?th?r? or resolution ?f ???n fr?m your ???t.

4. D?n't Settle for Less Th?n You Deserve 

It ??n f??l scary when ??u b?g?n t? h??r ??ur b??l?g???l clock t??k?ng ?nd ??u ??? ??ur friends get m?rr??d wh?l? ??u remain single. Th?r? may b? social, f?m?l? ?r r?l?g??u? ?r???ur? t? b? ?n a r?l?t??n?h??. Y?u m?? even ???r?tl? f?nd ??ur??lf f??l?ng ?h?m? ?r ?mb?rr???m?nt ?r like ????l? are f??l?ng ??rr? f?r ??u. Th?? ??n make ??u more vuln?r?bl? t? consider settling f?r a r?l?t??n?h?? wh??h seems acceptable but d???n't necessarily m?k? ??ur h??rt ??ng. B? ??r?ful n?t t? settle f?r less th?n ??u d???rv?. This is th? ??u?? ?f much unh????n???. R?m?mb?r, ju?t b???u?? ?th?r? are in a r?l?t??n?h?? does n?t n??????r?l? mean th?? are h????. You w?nt a g?nu?n? r?l?t??n?h?? th?t has th? b??t chance ?f standing the t??t of time.

5. Make D??????n? ?nd T?k? Action B???d ?n Faith, not F??r 

Alw??? r?m?mb?r ??u h?v? n?t only th? r?ght but th? responsibility t? m?k? th??? ?h????? th?t ?r? b??t f?r ??u. Fear ??n b? a gu?d? to warn ??u ?f danger, but do n?t make the m??t ?m??rt?nt decisions in ??ur l?f? ?ut ?f f??r. Seek gu?d?n?? ?nd ?u???rt, but tru?t ??ur ?wn f??l?ng? ?nd ?ntu?t??n. B? willing to b? truthful w?th ??ur??lf ?nd others ?nd have th? conviction to m?v? f?rw?rd ?? ??u think best.

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