Jan 29, 2022 in Life Coaching
The Call of Your Heart
Are you following your heart?
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
The Call of the Heart
We all have unique characters and unique skills. When we were children and we didn’t know what we could do or what we were capable of trying something new was exciting! We didn’t care about failure. We probably had never even heard that word and if we had we didn’t know it’s meaning. If we did we didn’t care. We played, we pretended, we discovered and it was all fun! So we fell, or didn’t accomplish our feat on the first try, so what? We tried again. And again. Until we got it or got close.
Then something changed
We changed. Most of us don’t know why. Maybe it was school that taught us different was wrong. Maybe it was our parents that told us to stop goofing around. Maybe it was our friends who told us we were being silly. We grew up and out of our childhood and that meant leaving our dreams behind. For some of us anyway.
As we got older we believed we had to find a college or find a job. Find a partner and settle down with some children of our own. That’s not a bad thing! If that was your dream then hooray! I’m happy for you. For many it’s not or at least it’s not the whole dream. Many sacrifice their dreams. For many reasons. And it doesn’t matter the reason.
My question to you is…are you living the life you want? One that fulfills you?
If you’re not, do you even want to? Because it’s not easy.
Being clear on the life you want takes time. It also takes unwavering commitment in the face of all of life’s obstacles and challenges. It will likely take some sacrifice too. Not everyone will understand your choices or the path you want to follow. You can bet that the individual who chooses to live off the grid has met with some very confused and disappointed parents and friends. But as the saying goes, “Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s fine. It’s not their journey.”
Steps on the journey
Finding your happy place or finding AGAIN, is going to take time and effort. To help you on your way consider these:
- Forgetting your plans.For a little while anyway. This gives you the freedom to rediscover yourself and try to new things or revisit the things that used to give you joy.
- Open yourself to new possibilities. How will you know if you never try? If something sticks then great. If not, at least you had an experience. There is no such thing as failure.
- Calm your mind and listen to your inner voice. You know what I’m talking about. We all hear that whisper, but we’ve learned to ignore it. Let it speak now and LISTEN. It’s speaking for a reason.
- Find your flow. And you’ll know when you find it. You’ll engage in something and time will pass quickly without you realizing it. You’re so caught up in what you’re doing it will feel like you’re in your own world. That is flow. And it is incredible.
It’s your life
Living is sometimes not easy. Don’t we all know it. Jobs, school, family…they all take a piece of us. We prioritize to keep everyone happy, and end up with little for ourselves. Following our heart and doing what we love may not happen overnight. I venture to say that it will take some time and some falling down. But in the end it will be worth it. A more fulfilled you is a better you. Not just for yourself, but for those around you.
Dare to follow your heart.