Dec 20, 2021 in Life Coaching
Happy Children from Birth to Adulthood
What can you do to make sure you're child is productive from childhood to adulthood? Here are some ideas to help.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Oh, what a world we live in nowadays. It seems that raising a child is more difficult once they leave the door and go about their day. You hope they are doing the right thing out of your presence. You hope they pick the right friends and decide to be in a crowd of other peers who have common sense and aren’t out to cause trouble.
So here are a few things that I think can help you raise your child at any age:
Do whatever it takes to raise your child’s self-esteem. At certain periods in their life, they will genuinely feel they have no worth or value when they are picked on. You need to be there to remind them of their worth to boost their self-esteem of themselves and be the best version of themselves they can be
When you’re child does nothing great. Let them know you saw them do good and praise them. Don’t just focus on what they did wrong.
If your child needs discipline set a time limit for that to happen. Don’t tell them that they are punished for a week and then by tomorrow you have changed your mind and they are off the hook. You also can’t have one parent be the bad guy and discipline while the other parent tells the child, “Don’t worry about it, go out and do what you want…” Be consistent. ALWAYS
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If your child wants to spend quality time with you then make time. Put your phone down, your game down, and spend time with that child. You want them to know that whenever they need you, you are available and will pay attention.
Set a good example for your children. Don’t do drugs/anything illegal… don’t be a parent who does all this bad stuff then tell your child not to do it. They go by example. They follow you and see that if you lie and get/got away with it then they will too.
What I hear a lot from young children, teens, and even young adults is that growing up there is/was a lack of communication. The parents seemed to be too busy to listen when they needed the parent. Make time to speak to your child either daily or weekly. Find out what is going on. Let them know they can come to you about anything without fear or judgment
What works for one child may not work for anything so you may have to make changes on how to adjust how you discipline one child over another one. Be willing to know that not all children are the same and even if you have to change your parenting style to fit another child be consistent with the change
Do not show favoritism from one child to the next. Show them equal love and show them unconditional love not conditional love with stipulations. You are the one that can show them that they can count on you when they need to come to you and help them adjust to life throughout their life.
I know it may be hard for some parents, but really pick your battles when it comes to your child's behavior. Would you rather discipline because your child cursed or would you rather focus on the more serious actions of that child hurting someone else or lying? You can’t deal with everything all at once and it’s an overload in the child’s brain so pick things one at a time to deal with and focus on and correct that.
Make special days for you and that child to do together. Whether it's to go get ice cream or out to lunch. Make that child feel special and do something with another child on another day. Make it special for each child.
Respect each other's parenting child unless it can cause harm to your child. Even if you don’t agree with the spouse is handling the situation. Otherwise, you will confuse the child.
It is okay to LOVE your spouse in front of the child/ren. It shows them what a true relationship is supposed to look like and they can treat their future partner with the same kind of love and affection
Raise your children to be respectful to other adults. To be polite.
Make sure your child is thriving and living a healthy lifestyle as best as possible. Teach them to brush their teeth, take a bath, appropriate sanitary needs that need to be taken care of.
You are the only one in your child’s life to give them a good start and start off from birth through adulthood. They need you more than they realize and you may have your moments where your children may feel they don’t need you but as they get older they will realize that because of the open communication they can, in the end, count on you and not make habits.