Dec 29, 2021 in Life Coaching
Self discovery the choices we make the Journey of life and what we want out of it
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
If I have learned nothing else, I have learned this. Questions matter. Ones asked to others, but more importantly, the introspective ones that cut to your core and tell you something about who you really are. They can be the lighthouse safely guiding you in the fog to land.If you are anything like me, you have spent a shit load of time believing the limitations that others set for your life. The “gotta’s” on the path.You gotta go to college.You gotta get that job.You gotta live in this city if you want to make it.Although this advice is well meaning, it is, for the most part, false. Given by those who probably never took real risks in their life, and so they want you to take the safe route as well. The problem with the safe route is it is usually in contradiction to the life you want. Nothing truly innovative or purposeful comes safely. It takes risks. But most importantly, it takes curiosity to examine the status quo to see if it has any real weight.
Your success is your invitation to discover, uncover and master the most phenomenal resources you possess within you right now: determination, passion, drive to learn and grow the courage and the desire to live life at its deepest most powerful level. This journey is about becoming who you always were meant to be, you better know yourself but drive you what you are passionate about, what you love, what you hate and what excites you the more effortlessly it is for you to achieve what you want to be fulfilled. We have to appreciate that it isn't what we get that makes us happy but who he becomes. And who we ultimately become is a choice we get to determine the quality of our experiences. I believe that on some level each of us feels an inner hunger for something more. Each of us has an inner knowing that there is another level of living that is possible.
Where are you in your journey of life?
Before we can create change and anything we must first assess where the desire of our changes is. How can we measure the success of our train unless we can measure the before and after? We must focus on identifying the most important areas of our life's journey. These will be the areas you will focus on to improve both in your personal and professional life. These are the areas that if you were not to transform the quality of life would suffer or be compromised they are the areas of your life that you were to transform you would feel levels of success and fulfillment you can only imagine life is nothing more than a series of choices that we make for ourselves to meet our even not choosing is a choice every choice we make has consequences and these consequences can be empowering or disempowering. The important thing is to blame ourselves if we made a poor choice but to become aware of the choice and be thankful for the choice and to notice any pattern in our choices once we're done so that we can see a blueprint for how we shape our life. If we like the blueprint we would keep our pattern of choice. If we don't like the blueprint then we need to learn how to make different, more empowering choices. It's now time to make new empowering choices if everything in life can come down to being a series of choices, would now be a good time to make choices that empower you that make you happy that would prepare you closer to where you want your life to be take the time right now to write down some new choices that will empower you lead you to New beginnings allow you to get rid of some old things that you have been tolerating give you the freedom to explore to love to learn to grow to give. What is the new choice as I now choose... What are the positive consequences of these choices? What will your life look like in 3 years 5 years 10 years time if you keep making choices like these?
Things that matter the most will never be at the mercy of things that matter least!!
There's a few questions you can ask yourself to help you discover if you're where you need to be.
What is Life about
What is life not about what is the purpose of life who are you really who could you be what would it take to be who you could be what's the most important thing to you in life what do you want from life
Where in my life can I trade a short-term, incremental gain for a potential longer-term game-changing upside?What is my third most unique strength?What would make what I am doing right now easiest?What do I spend a silly amount of money on? How might I scratch my itch?. If today were your last day on earth, what would you write?What if the only way to add to my life was to subtract from it? What would be the first 1–2 things that I would remove?What are the unifying characteristics of the top 3 people I most want to emulate?What is something I would miss if I no longer had it?What is one relationship that I have let slip? What is the reason?Who would be most upset if I quit/moved/tried this?What is my most perceived weakness? How can I turn it into a strength?If I had to instill one piece of advice in your own child’s mind, what advice would I give?What is something that I believe that none of my friends do?What are the 20% of things in my life that cause 80% of my anxiety?When did I learn a lesson the hard way?What is something that I lost that I will never get back?