Aug 25, 2021 in Business Coaching
Conscious Leadership - what is it REALLY?
Understanding what being a Conscious Leader actually means in practical terms.
How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
There are many definitions as it is subjective issue and means different things to different people. The definition changes depending on if you are a community based project, your business is medium to large or you are solopreneur. However I believe there are 7 Principles that are the foundation to any conscious leadership path or business...I call them the 7 'C' Principles...they are:
- Consciousness – being more connected with ourselves, our environment, personal purpose and business purpose
- Compassion - really caring for people and their concerns
- Co-creation- allowing ideas, concepts and vision from those who work with us to form the design of our business and lifestyles
- Collaboration – working with like minded service providers, clients and staff who’s values are aligned with our own
- Contribution – giving back to our team, our clients and to worthy causes with our time and not just money
- Culture – to encourage a culture of inclusion and participation
- Community – build a community of prosperity and engagement of all parties involved
These fundamental principles create the 'essence' of what it means to be a conscious being in today's ever changing environment. They are certainly not set in stone as like anything in this shifting paradigm it is evolving.
In my own business I include each of these principles in some form to ensure I am living them daily as it is not something you do, but a way of being. It is not always easy as they can be challenging to truly develop, however I started with myself first, finding out how was personally able to live my own life by them. Having gone through many challenges over the past 10 years including a messy divorce, my Mum battling Cancer, the death of my Father, the breakdown of my career, and incredibly bad health, I have had to find my way through it all. This is when I came to appreciate and see that I was naturally embracing each one of these principles as tools to my own survival and ultimately redesign of my self and my life. So much of the essence of each one of these principles I witnessed in some way, experienced in many ways, in nature. Yes nature - as it has an abundance of these principles being lived every moment of every day. You just need to stop, listen and pay attention. Becoming present in the moment, being still and seeing, feeling and experiencing each minute in a completely connect way, is what helped me get through the most challenging years of my life.
I know have an amazing group of friends who are more like family, that are also aligned and have gone through similar experiences, who have also found each of these principles playing a powerful role in their lives. The work I do and the clients I have seem to also be aligned with the essence of each one of these principles - so much so there is an unspoken understanding and natural connection like no other.
The word 'leadership' has always bothered me in some aspect as I honestly believe we all lead in our way and no one is better at it than anyone else. It has always symbolized a hierarchical application which I have never been fond of, as just don't believe in it. Leadingship is much more connected to the way in which I believe and feel works productively for all those involved. The word 'leadingship' means leading by example - walking your talk so that you fully understand the path and essence of the journey, in order to step up and empower others to do the same.
This is the new paradigm that is sweeping across the world and permeating in every area of society and business, and it is one that can essentially save humanity from it's own self destruction. If only we would take the time to stop, listen and feel with open hearts, what is really important for us to focus on. Becoming more conscious is the key to our survival. No one said it would be easy as once you are more conscious of the realities of the world you can never unknow. It is a leap of faith but one that is grounded in true evolution of the human kind.