Being happy is the easiest thing you can ever get for yourself. Most people look towards other people or their job or even money to make them happy. Happiness comes from within not from anyone else or things. Once you discover who you truly are and what you need in life everything around you will fall into place simply because you'll look at it differently, why, because you're happy. Stop letting your past keep you from being happy. Stop letting your ex keep you from being happy. Stop letting your children keep you from being happy. Sometimes you have to put you first so that you can get to that place where you need to be in your life. Everyone and everything will fall in line once you're happy. "Now let's get it"