Mar 11, 2020 in Counseling

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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??

My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him

Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?

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Huttslady

28 Sep

Help

We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?

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Caligirl

28 Sep

Idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them

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Ashleigh

12 Sep

Lost and confused at a crossroads

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling

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Diya Singh

28 Sep

How can I get my teen to confide in me

I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this

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Mommy22

28 Sep

What do I do?

I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.

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John Hayward

28 Sep

I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.

He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?

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Martha Diaz

28 Sep

Shared custody

It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?

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Christie

28 Sep

What should I do?

My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD

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Some of us will never want to see our ex again after a nasty breakup, but just as many may think that getting back together after some time apart couldn’t be so bad.

If you suspect that you’re seeing signs your ex will eventually come back, don’t wait to prepare yourself for what could be a potentially difficult conversation and a rocky start to a second try at love. Instead, mentally prepare yourself with some of the following tidbits.

Here’s what you need to know about getting back with the ex.

Evaluate yourself.

Are you ready for this? In some cases, individuals who have recently broken up try their hand at getting back together soon after a breakup. Decisions like these may be fueled by grief or loneliness rather than reason, so take some important time to yourself in order to understand your emotional needs.

Be prepared to talk it out.

The foundation of any solid relationship lies in communication, but this is especially true when you’re wondering how to get your ex back in a way that’s both healthy and productive. Get ready to brace yourself for what could be some difficult conversations—tackle what you liked and didn’t like about your past relationship, then proactively propose changes to prevent yourselves from making the same mistakes a second time.

Sign up for online counseling.

Last but certainly not least, we think one of the best things you can do for yourself when wondering how to get back with your ex is to work closely with an Online Relationship Counselor. Not only will an Online Counselor be able to help you assess your own needs and whether or not you are ready to dive back into a relationship with your ex, but a Counselor can also work with both you and your ex during online counseling sessions.

During these dual sessions, a Relationship Counselor can help both of you to discuss with one another the problems that you encountered during your past relationship. Not only will this clarity help you to reflect and heal on an individual level, but discussing these past struggles with a professional Counselor can also help you and your ex to learn to be happy with one another moving forward, should you choose to get back together.

Speaking with a Counselor about these problems may be scary, but it may also be exactly what you need on your journey toward personal healing and new love. Browse through our list of Online Relationship Counselors now and message them for free!