Dec 11, 2020 in Counseling
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
We’ve all heard the phrase immortalized in the media over the decades—” Oh, no. It’s the in-laws.”
However, feuds between overbearing in-laws and their child’s spouse aren’t just for laughs on television. In many cases, these relationships can cause real damage to a marriage, particularly if interference from in-laws becomes persistent.
To further prove that the infamous in-law dispute scenario is more than a media trope, 75% of couples interviewed across the world have indicated having problems with one or both of their in-laws.
How parents-in-law can weaken a marriage.
Falling in love with your partner doesn’t always mean falling in love with your parents, but the unfortunate reality is that it’s difficult, in many situations, to choose between parents and a spouse! For this reason, married couples often tolerate more hardships with in-laws than they would with anyone else, perpetuating relationships and interactions which could be damaging in the long term.
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Are your overbearing in-laws interfering?
Because interference from an overbearing mother or father can sometimes be subtle, often demonstrated over a long period of time as a toxic undertone that festers within the foundation of your relationship with your spouse, it can be helpful to review a few real-life examples of how your spouse’s parents could be interfering in your marriage.
Your in-laws may be interfering if:
- They demand large amounts of your spouse’s time and energy;
- They attempt to parent your children differently or consistently criticize the decisions you and your spouse make as parents;
- They speak ill of you to your spouse or treat you poorly;
- They frequently send you, your spouse, or both on “guilt trips.”
How to save your relationship
If you think that your in-laws are contributing to toxicity in your marriage, not all is lost. Even when the situation seems too complex to tackle, reach out to an Online Marriage Counselor for help. By speaking to a Marriage Counselor alone or together with your spouse, you can discuss how dealing with difficult in-laws has hindered your marriage and, most importantly, learn how to set boundaries with your in-laws to prevent further problems.
Keep in mind that there is nothing wrong with asking for help from a Marriage Counselor. Instead, online marriage counseling can be seen as a tool for you to overcome the challenges associated with difficult in-laws. Instead, consider the act of working with an Online Marriage Counselor to be a step toward success, love, and healing.