Sep 11, 2020 in Life Coaching
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
It can happen to anyone. Emotional abuse is not the type of abuse that you can see physically, but it’s definitely one that can dramatically affect you. It can often be called psychological abuse and mental abuse.
Emotional abuse is a form of domestic violence that negatively affects the mental health of the victim. It can be directed against a partner, family member, or even a colleague. The victim of emotional abuse is groomed by the abuser to accept the abuse as normal behavior. They learn to think and accept that this treatment is what they deserve, thus why emotional abuse can make you think you’re crazy.
Emotionally abusive relationships usually start by gaining the victim’s trust. Once they have that, this type of mental abuse begins with manipulation and control. Tactics of psychological abuse can be difficult to see or so subtle that you may not even realize you’re being manipulated and threatened.
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You might blame yourself or think you’re going crazy. It’s important to learn about emotional abuse and how to get on the right path to recovery.
Signs of emotional abuse.
- Name-calling and yelling at you;
- Insulting and belittling you constantly;
- Punishing you when the abuser doesn't his way or when trying to control you;
- Gaslighting - making you question your own sanity;
- Forcing you to isolate yourself from your loved ones.
Stop reasoning with the abuser.
When you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship, it’s important to stop reasoning with the abuser otherwise you can fall back into a vicious cycle. Instead of looking for a reason for the abuser’s outburst or trying to figure out what you did wrong, you need to disengage.
The arguments will usually go in circles because the abuser won’t acknowledge your rationality. As stated earlier, this type of psychological abuse is difficult to catch. Start thinking about yourself and your mental well-being.
Disengage with the psychological abuse as much as possible by:
- Making yourself boring to the abuser;
- Walk away from the situation;
- Don’t react to the manipulation.
- Learn to trust yourself after emotional abuse.
It can be difficult to trust your judgment and thoughts after experiencing mental abuse, especially when it causes secondary conditions that may also need to be addressed. These secondary conditions can include anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder and other stress-related health issues.
How to find a Life Coach.
Upon discovering that you are involved in an emotionally abusive relationship, seek online life coaching. Your Expert can guide you towards the road of recovery by helping you through each and every step. The emotional abuse that you’re experience is real and you need to get the help required because you deserve to be happy. Find a Life Coach so that you can get back on track and start living a happy, fulfilled life.