Aug 14, 2020 in Life Coaching
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
Learning that your partner has been unfaithful is emotionally crushing.
It’s seemingly impossible to know what you’re supposed to do once you’ve come to your heartbreaking revelation.
Just know that you aren’t alone. And that we’re here to offer some helpful tips on how to cope once you’ve learned that your partner has been unfaithful.
Let it all sink in. Accept that you’ll be sad.
It’s a common mistake for people to hide their emotions behind thinly veiled stoicism. Really, you’d just be bottling everything up. Just remember, it’s okay to be sad. And it may take a few moments for the gravity of the situation to set in.
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Furthermore, it’s okay to be angry. But it’s better to be angry in a productive way. Meaning, instead of doing something like self-medicating through alcohol or recreational drugs, find a pillow and screech into it with all your might.
Talk it out.
When your emotions have subsided enough to be in the same room as your partner, it’s time to talk.
If you wish to work things out, it’s crucial to establish a back-and-forth with your partner. You’ll gain an understanding of how things went wrong. Conversely, if you wish to end the relationship, starting an open dialogue about what happened will offer closure.
Note that while you may want to do a lot of the talking, you’ll need to listen. Getting your partner’s side of the story is key to understanding and healing.
Assess the weight of the situation.
Infidelity must be handled with great delicacy because the situation can go off the rails given combustible nature of the emotions involved.
First and foremost, ensure that it’s safe to be around your partner. Decide whether you need to arrange for somewhere else to stay. Stability is a must during this time, and a safe space to rest your bones can go a long way in helping you get back on your feet.
Find someone else to talk to.
You may need some time to register your partner’s infidelity. But once the shock has worn off, it’s time to talk to somebody.
Start with your best friend, who’ll see everything from your side and offer an empathetic shoulder on which to cry.
Afterward, we strongly suggest seeking help such as online life coaching. Learning your partner has been unfaithful is incredibly traumatic and requires the delicate touch of an Expert.