Sep 9, 2021 in Life Coaching
Do Exes Come Back or is it Just Wishful Thinking?
Read on to discover.
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
If you're reading this, then you're probably thinking "will my ex come back to me"? There is no straightforward answer to this question. Each and every relationship is different and of course, there is no one size fits all type of solution to this.
The real question that you should be asking yourself, is if your ex returns, will things be better this time and if not, how will you move forward from this and start a new chapter in your life.
In this article, we will discuss whether exes do return and what to do if this happens. We also share other articles that were written by professionals that others like you, found helpful.
Are you a victim of your exes? Are you sabotaging your future because of them? Read this article by Rita Hurry, Online Life Coach and book an online session with her.
Do Exes Come Back or is it Just Wishful Thinking?
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Yes, it is possible for an ex to return. Especially, when your breakup was just temporary or a mistake. If your ex is missing you and cannot live or cope without you, then there is a high chance of you getting back together.
Breakups are all about perspectives. Learn more about this. Read this article by Trina Leckie, Online Life Coach and book an online session with her
How Do You Know When or if an Ex Will Return?
There are several strong signs that indicate your ex will return. On the other hand, there are also strong signs of your ex never returning. Here are some signs that your ex will come back:
- Still keeping in contact with you;
- Not cutting you off;
- The breakup was due to external reasons;
- Never made your breakup official.
See how you can manifest your ex using the 30-day no contact rule. Read this article by Ann Verster, Online Life Coach and book a session with her.
Signs Your Ex Won't Come Back
- Your ex told you to move on;
- Intentionally trying to make you jealous;
- Blocked you from everything;
- Avoids you at all costs.
Now, that you have a better idea of where you and your ex stand. You should have a better understanding of whether you'll reunite or not.
Is Reuniting with Your Ex Really a Good Thing? Or is it Better to Stay Apart?
Again, this is another factor that depends entirely on your situation. You know the reason as to why the relationship ended. However, there is a possibility that when couples do reunite, they can make their relationships work and be stronger than ever.
Still, it can be extremely difficult to predicate whether your relationship will work if you do reunite with your ex. Let's see whether it's worth reuniting with your ex:
- Your breakup was due to external reasons. Some examples are due to family issues;
- There was a little misunderstanding in your relationship or a miscommunication issue;
- You and your ex just needed some space and time apart to work on yourselves before repairing your relationship.
When it's best not to reunite:
- Your relationship ended due to abuse. Whether it was physical or emotional;
- You or your partner have fallen out of love;
- When you've been trying to make things work for years and nothing improves.
There are some instances such as infidelity for example, in which you can still reunite with your ex and make your relationship work.
The best thing to do is analyze the situation and think about whether it's best for you to get back together or not. Write down all the positives and negatives to help break it down.
Are you facing rejection from your ex? See why rejection is not about you. Written by Tony Fahkry, Online Life Coach and book a session with him.
Wondering whether your partner is or was committed to you? Read this article by Ann Verster, Online Life Coach.
Was it Really Love or Just Infatuation?
There is no straightforward answer to this. However, If you're reading this article and you're holding on to hope that your ex will come back to you, then chances are it really is love.
On the other hand, you need to ask yourself, if you get back with your ex, are you willing to put in the effort to make your relationship work? What will you do differently this time?
See how you can differentiate between love and infatuation.
Whose Fault Was it? Yours or Your Ex's?
Now, with this, it's not about naming, shaming, or blaming yourself or your ex. But it is also important to think about whose fault it was or if you were both responsible for things not going right.
Do you have a fear of commitment? See these signs. Written by Ann Verster, Online Life Coach.
We hope to have helped you. However, you can get help from an Online Relationship Coach or Breakup Coach for help that's tailored to your needs. Message one of them for free to book a session.
Therefore, getting help from a professional is advisable so that you can break it down, analyze the situation and determine how to move forward from here.
You can also read articles that were written by professionals and follow the topics "relationship" and "divorce" to stay updated on the latest.