Nov 7, 2022 in Life Coaching
How to Save a Marriage After Separation
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How do I fix a marriage after cheating??
My husband of 5 years has cheated on me. I'm heartbroken. Can I fix our marriage?? Is there hope for us?? Will things get better? Please help
Am I over reacting? Am I the one in the wrong no him
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he denied cheating on me but everything points to the opposite he's gone to spend the night with his baby moma and her kids in a hotel he rated me put to her when I called the cops on her for her vandalizing my car he would defend her when I would bring thing up about her and he has a video of her playing with her self am I wrong for being mad?
We both have insecurities and trust issues due to past relationships... So, there's the back and forth accusations, yelling, name calling, etc. We are both extremely jealous and have no communication skills. We love each other but sometimes Love isn't enough to make someone understand that you aren't going to hurt them. How can we help each other overcome these issues?
Idk what to do
My boyfriend and I have been fighting because he found some old messages that I had when we started going out, the messages are not bad the conversations where just like hi and bye kind of thing but because I told him I wasn't talking to anyone he's mad but da whole time he was still hanging out with his baby momma behind my back and he would delete all his messages to her so I wouldn't see them
Lost and confused at a crossroads
My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years now. We have had a very tumultuous relationship both of us have hurt each other very much on each parts. But he’s done a lot more wrong it has no accountability. But my question is how do you handle it because anytime I try to talk to him about anything he automatically yells at me, deflects, accuse me of cheating. How do you go about handling
How can I get my teen to confide in me
I've been trying to get my son to confide in me about why he is feeling so depressed. He is 15 years old and a very good teen but have no idea why he is so withdrawn and quiet. Please help me I cant bear to see him like this
What do I do?
I'm not sure what to do. Recently separated mom with 2 young girls and pregnant with my 3rd.
I took my son's Ipad away because I'm at my wit's end with him.
He is so addicted and doesn’t want to do anything else. Can anyone tell me whether I did the right thing or am I being too harsh?
It's 3 y I divorced and we have shared custody of 2 lovely kids. Any advice on how to make them understand that divorced parents is ok?
What should I do?
My son is acting out in school and giving people the middle finger and running around and hitting when he is restrained and he also has speech apraxia and may have ADHD
In this article, we will give you tips on how to save a marriage after separation.
So, you have separated from your spouse and recently you've reunited. You probably have your reasons for getting back together and you both feel that your marriage can be saved.
It also means that you genuinely love each other. Given these factors, you can work as a team to revive your relationship and get back what has been lost.
Sometimes a separation helps. It gives both partners some time for introspection and space. It also gives you both the opportunity to reflect on your actions and see what went wrong in the first place and what can be done to resolve.
It will be a lot of work from both sides and it will take time and dedication to live the happily married life that you've always dreamed of.
In the end, it will all be worth it and you can ride off into the sunset!
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How to save a marriage after separation
Solve the problem
Now, that you're both willing to make your marriage work, you'll need to identify the problem if you haven't already. If you both know what the issue is, you need to work together to solve it. Discuss it, share your feelings and try and come up with a solution that's suitable for both parties.
Learn how to save your marriage. Read this article by Jennifer Lehr, Online Therapist.
If there are things you're uncomfortable with, let your partner know and vice versa. Set healthy boundaries with one another and come to an agreement.
Learn to compromise
There are no marriages without compromises. In addition to setting boundaries, you both need to learn to work together. If you ask your partner to give up something, then you should prepare to give him something in return.
According to Dharan Murali, Online Therapist, there are 5 Cs that hinder a relationship. See what they are and how you can avoid them.
Forgive each other
Whatever happened in the past needs to stay there when you're working together to solve your problems. It's understandable that some issues are hurtful and difficult to move forward from. However, when trying to save your marriage, then you'll need to heal, forgive and move on.
Learn how to forgive and strengthen your relationship. Read this article by Dharan Murali, Online Therapist.
Give it time and don't push
We are not saying leave your problems looming over your heads or procrastinate on solving them. However, you also need to understand that it will take time to resolve. So, try not to push yourself or your partner too hard.
Get professional help
Depending on the problem, it might be beneficial to reach out to help from a professional who can work with both of you to help get your marriage back on track. You can read articles written by Experts and even follow the topics relationship and marriage to stay updated.
If needed, you can book a session with an Online Relationship Coach or Marriage Counselor. Feel free to also ask a question in our "Discuss with Experts". Here, you'll receive support from others along with professional guidance.
Read this article for tips on how to get your relationship back on track. Written by George Stack, Online Counselor and Life Coach.