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May 7, 2021 in 

How to save a marriage after separation.

You can't live without each other, so make it work!

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In this article, we will give you tips on how to save a marriage after separation. 

So, you have separated from your spouse and recently you've reunited. You probably have your reasons for getting back together and you both feel that your marriage can be saved. 

It also means that you genuinely love each other. Given these factors, you can work as a team to revive your relationship and get back what has been lost. 

Sometimes a separation helps. It gives both partners some time for introspection and space. It also gives you both the opportunity to reflect on your actions and see what went wrong in the first place and what can be done to resolve. 

It will be a lot of work from both sides and it will take time and dedication to live the happily married life that you've always dreamed of. 

In the end, it will all be worth it and you can ride off into the sunset! 

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How to save a marriage after separation

How to save a marriage after separation

Solve the problem

Now, that you're both willing to make your marriage work, you'll need to identify the problem if you haven't already. If you both know what the issue is, you need to work together to solve it. Discuss it, share your feelings and try and come up with a solution that's suitable for both parties.

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Set boundaries

If there are things you're uncomfortable with, let your partner know and vice versa. Set healthy boundaries with one another and come to an agreement. 

Learn to compromise

There are no marriages without compromises. In addition to setting boundaries, you both need to learn to work together. If you ask your partner to give up something, then you should prepare to give him something in return. 

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Forgive each other

Whatever happened in the past needs to stay there when you're working together to solve your problems. It's understandable that some issues are hurtful and difficult to move forward from. However, when trying to save your marriage, then you'll need to heal, forgive and move on.

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Give it time and don't push

We are not saying leave your problems looming over your heads or procrastinate on solving them. However, you also need to understand that it will take time to resolve. So, try not to push yourself or your partner too hard. 

Get professional help

Depending on the problem, it might be beneficial to reach out to help from a professional who can work with both of you to help get your marriage back on track. You can read articles written by Experts and even follow the topics relationship and marriage to stay updated. 

If needed, you can book a session with an Online Relationship Coach or Marriage Counselor. 

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Read this article for tips on how to get your relationship back on track. Written by George Stack, Online Counselor and Life Coach. 

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